Power of Breakup | Onkar Kishan Khullar | TEDxRamanujanCollege

I love meeting people who had been through a same situation like me, dealing with a heartbreak.
You guys are inspiring each other alot♥️🙏.

I have always wished to talk to someone who has been through the same situation and I can relate to so many of you over here.
And It feels a less easier to deal with the situation now

After 34 years of pure love my Rachel the most beautiful kind hearted human on earth dissapeared !!! its been 48hrs and my life is over ,,i see no reason to exist ,, shes missing and the police are helping ,, but minutes feel like days,, every breath feels like knives in my chest,,opening my eys feels like a waste of time ,, food taste like rocks ,, life is pain

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Have you been into a relationship which is not a RELATIONSHIP a , has LOVE , and your heart broke every single day??

The worst accent ever

Why I just can't feel the energy, all I can feel is pain, sadness and grieve

Amazing

This guy trying to “humble” flex his achievements during heartbreak is kind of cringe.

But it's very hard 😭😔😭

But it's very hard 😭😔😭

This was never been told earlier ❤

Too slow...

My 6 year relationship ended few days ago... and im not feeling anything , im not feeling heartbreak... irony is that im feeling positive and happy ! Idk what is wrong with me

2023💔

Thanks Onkar for sharing your experience, but you seem to overlook the gendered aspects of breaking up

It's like they said the Secret to glow up and character development. Get dumped.

2022💔

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Wow! Amazing! And so true!!

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I loved this alot ! Im going through rough divorce. I can't sleep nights , I can't eat, I'm just so sad and depressed . I still love him, I want him back, I'm scared to live my own . ( I was super spoilt lol ) but I'm gonna use that energy vto focus on my dream ! I wanna have my own bakery!!

you know the most powerful fuel in this world? yes, PAIN

👆👆👆text him on WhatsApp for help.

👆👆My dear i pray the universe grant your heart desire, my making your partner loving you unconditionally with more care and dedications through Dr Akhigbe the powerful love manifestation that restore my 5years broken marriage...

Wow, one of THE BEST TED talk I have ever heard!!

Fantastic!!

I needed to hear this! Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🌼

Thank you. Your words ease my broken heart. I was in a 7 yrs relationship filled with unconditional love & faith. Then just yesterday, don't know what happened he became heartless and treated me so bad. I cry & mourn not for the loss but for his cruelty. I didn't want to have a summary of our ending like that. Every word here hits the bullseye. I got into golf bc how hurt I am. I'm getting really good at it. I guess a broken heart is the potential energy to do greater thing

Dhoka insan ko under se thod deta hai pr boht kuch sikha bhi deta hai

I really want to know if someone else felt this so if you did plz let me know. after my break up which was my first love a big part of me didn't want to move on like I wasn't even trying, I hated the idea that I could love someone so deeply and it's possible to "unlove" them. it's like the idea of love changed for me. I started to realize that love isn't a "forever " thing after all. and it scared me. slowly all those faifytales about finding "the one" faded because I realized than humans can actually love more than one person in their life time. and if we are capable of unloving then how would I ever feel safe when someone says that they love me? whenever someone would tell me stuff like "you will get over it" or "you will forget about him" it made feel worse because it also meant he will forget about me too. it just hit me. that love isn't an ammunity. someone can love you and still break your heart eventually. someone can love you and still leave. someone can love you and then for whatever reason they might stop loving you. and i guess ever since I never knew how to accept it. and ever since I felt that love isn't as valuable to me as it was. because usually what makes it so special is the idea that this person will always be by your side, they will always love you and they won't be able to love someone else. but the reality humans are capable of readapting including me. and i know one day it won't hurt. and that's the sad part.and it almost felt like all the things I was so disappointed he was capable of doing eventually ill celebrate that im doing them like " forgetting someone he once loved" or "unloving" . and i start to realize that all the stuff that felt so unnatural and heartbreaking to me are actually the things that I eventually have to do. and sometimes I didn't want someone to tell me positive things like "you will get over it" or " if I got over it you can too" because it's like me telling someone this box is heavy and they take it from you and say no no it's really light just try again,like hey I did it you can. like that might actually help and you will try again and it might feel light. but in some cases that will only make it worse because it made me feel like a failure. like why is this person capable of carrying this box and i can't? why is this person is able to get over their relationship but I can't? you know?. so I guess what I needed was someone to tell me that no the box is heavy. this relationship started when we were both so young and it was our first relationship so we both didn't really know what we were doing and if im gonna talk about myself I've done so many things wrong. and a part of me always wish that he wasn't my first so I wouldve known what to do more. it felt like life threw everything I wanted at me but my palms were too small and everything was falling through my fingers and I had to watch it go away. now that my palms are big enough there's nothing left and I'm still standing there hoping I'm not too late. it's been a couple of years

I thought someone breaking my heart would be worse but what's really worse is being the one to break someone's heart while you know you're hurting them but had to do it and act like you don't care because you were force since you don't want your parents to get hurt because they were against it and you dad's with a health problem and you have to act okay to your parents as well as act to him like you don't love him anymore
What could be worse?

i just experienced break up for the first time in my life, there was a tiny explanation and no more just blocked and unadded and im now left wondering what i did wrong

I remember sorry I mean i don't i never lower my confidence because of these things yes one's there was time when i was so mess but now i became so strong doesn't matter someone wants to come to come if want to leave i am always like "plzz sir leave " ❤️❤️❤️

Just let go of my ex. We were together for almost 3 years. It hurts so much loving someone that you know can never love you back or maybe never did. Walking away was for the best, for both of us. Nothing in this life is permanent so it’s best to just let go with love & grace. I’m hoping to look back at this comment one day & be proud of how far I’ve come.

Very informative, but please help how to focus on work and how to manage that we are not able to have food just because of heartbreak.

Meanwhile me: pulls up a pack of cigarrets after 4th breakup in 3 months.

I m heartbroken very badly , and his words literally connected me so well ! ❤️ Love to this sweet human being !

I come here time to time to heal myself ❤️

This was a magical way of looking at breakups. It has helped me have a different perception. It can help fuel you into something great depending on how you transfer that energy. Even if it a very painful energy.

we humans endagered ourselves.....by calling a hormones changing in our body love.............

Don't let a man tell you twice that he don't love you.

My girlfriend of two years cheated on me and then suddenly left me.
Its not easy to be honest but I am definitely going to become the best version of myself and no one can stop me.
And never ever disconnect from your family and friends for any boy/girl, its not worth it.
Got to go to work hard.
Bye.

Heartbroken. I have the JEE Advanced in like 36 days (28 August). I'll give my absolute best. Will update here after the result (11 September).

The busy mexican outstandingly shiver because centimeter inevitably slip afore a teeny theater. limping, somber stream

Singles are crying 😭😀😀

Thanks after listening this i got relief 💝

After heart break, no emotions, no feelings, no care..just numbness, and full of loneliness, but still people living life in a different stronger way🙏

Thank you brother!!!

Amazing ❤️

Wow 👍. My suggestion is that if you get the chance fk your so called luv partner as much as possible in the starting stage itself. Don’t wait if another seconds.

Heart break may be like you love someone and that person also loves you... But you both know that you can't be together forever..