How to Have a Good Conversation | Celeste Headlee | TEDxCreativeCoast

I think this is great but relates more to being a good listener or interviewer than a good conversationalist. Perhaps I’m wrong but I’ve always enjoyed back and forth conversation and sharing experiences

for someone who likes listening that much she sure does a lot of talking

Was it just me, or was that lady in the crowd wearing a big blanket?? 😄😄😄

And unfortunately on top of all this you also need to care in the slightest about being a good conversationalist

Well said but People's bad habit is they can't listen someone's stuff if a person wants to tell their story or experience something they cut in between and tell their stuff as you told don't equate with your experiences

Nelson Mandela agreed on one point... listen...above all let me try to speak last

There is a Persian proverb that says:
"You've got two ears and one tongue meaning you have to listen more than talking."

All points said I never practiced, I just missed everything. Now I need to work on every possible point.

#6 is horrible advice. A lot of folks just want to be relatable and know they aren’t alone.

Always remind myself: "This is a thought, it's just a thought. I don't have to believe it. I don't have to act on it, I don't have to fight it. I can let it pass through."

Anti-vaxxing? She used a politically charged word while pretending to stay above board. “Climate change” is an objective reality since it’s always changing and how it’s changing and whether is good or bad is an open ended question. Computers and records are not crystal balls but they are quite useful for near future predictions.

Saying “anti-vax” is a pejorative used against people who don’t want to take a vaccine, question effectiveness, ingredients or to people who want to wait until their children are school aged to get vaccines.

I wont throw the baby out with the bath water. People can be flawed and brilliant at the same time.

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The amount of ads ☠️

I stopped speaking to people 13 years ago.

omg the clicking is obnoxious

Great video i stumbled across. This is great for humility

Set aside "an un-necessarily contentious expression of your personal opinions" . Do not set aside your personal opinions , unless you genuinely believe that is best .

Listen and be amazed! Just wow!!😊

U get 10 lakh slap daily if u talk to me

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GREAT

my best friend sent me this when i was diagnosed with autism and bpd, ily arthur <3

"Climate change and anti-vaxxing"...That didnt age well.

"A good conversation is like a miniskirt; short enough to retain interest! but long enough to cover the subject."

Amazing quote

That was an awesome presentation! Tons of little gems to use.

This is going to help a lot of people,thank you!

Nice

The absurdity of making a joke about vaccines that is going to alienate a good chunk of your audience while professing to be an expert in communication is just peak clownworld.

#5. "I don't know" seems to be a poisonous statement in today's discourse. I'd like to know when it was and how it happened that not appearing to have every answer every time is somehow a sign of weakness or inferiority. Particularly among politicians and business people.

Listening to someone's queries should be our priority rather than giving them advice👍

She's sharing good information, but the audience laughing at literally everything she says is extremely distracting

You think people get offended then 😂😂 You should see 2023

No entendí la nro 7 ¿a que se refiere con que "no se repitan"?

Thank you for this, after a successful 1st date, the 2nd date didn't go very well, parting words from them 'take care of yourself' is usually a goodbye. Reflecting and journalling a review of the date, I steered the conversation, spoke too much about myself and failed to ask them many questions, there were so many threads they mentioned. I needed to phase than filling the next gap thinking of what I should say, instead of what would I like to know about this person and ask them..!

yo guys, I have many ideas but I cant say cuz it was uh, very odd

Anyone also noticed that the Joker was present in that talk?

great advice i love her.

I’ve watched lots of ted talks and this is genuinely one of my favorites

Good talk… but why does she look like she’s leaning the entire talk. It’s pretty distracting.

❤🎉🎉🎉 really what is a conversation I found today to listen to be in sync with the listener

I really appreciated this!

amazing speaker wow loved this vid sm

I listen a lot more than i talk
My problem is the talking seems like my mind is either blank or i feel that the conversation wont go anywhere

i have found most folk like to talk about themselves

More of a, how to interview, than, how to converse.

That make me think to something I lived - I was at a party and I had a debate with a friend. He started to speak and I was listening without stopping him. When he finished to speak I started to answer, but at this moment he took his phone and just check to see if someone sent him a message ! Unfortunately they are so many people like that (even if it is one of my close friend) - they just want to say what they want and after they don’t care of what you answer…

be interested in other people

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