7 Signs You May Be With The Wrong Person

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It's hard for me, because my partner struggles with dependency issues and I struggle with maintaining contact with them outside of school. It's like I'm all happy with them when I'm physically there with them (though there are some moments where I don't know how to feel about them), but when I'm talking with them online, I'm afraid of getting stuck in a conversation with them (that happens with most other people, but especially with my partner). I do love my partner and we're both trying our best to fix our own issues, but sometimes it's just. Hard. ig.

Love is rough, man.

Currently dealing with 5. Has to be the most frustrating thing ever. I wonder if I'm self-sabotaging the relationship

I don't understand... What's really happening,
I m with a person who curse me with abusive words whenever the person gets angry. But in normal circumstances he is good. When he is angry he showers abusive words, Doesn't HV trust in me, always checks my Phone. All my self respect is lost, and I don't feel like being me around him. I m confused and afraid. I don't feel like spending time with him. But all he have is me...
What should I do🫠
What should I do...

Like some of us have any choice but to put up with what we've got.

Blame women for being materialistic

No I have to say I did not enjoy this video 😂 but thank you 😢😅

What started wrong will very rarelly work out well.

I've been with my partner for a year and three months, and I'm in this situation rn.
Our communication is amazing, our conversations are never dull. We don't really have any issues, and anyone on the outside would say we're compatible.
My issue arises exclusively within myself. I thought I was genuinely romantically interested in her, at least at the beginning. I genuinely love her. But I don't feel the strong feelings people tend to describe, and I don't get sad when I think about the possibility of our relationship ending. I feel sad for her, because I know she loves me in a way I don't know if I'm capable of towards her, so it'd be a lot harder on her than me.
I'm starting to think it was quite a bit of a crush, but the type that fades eventually without ever really growing to something more.
I see her as one of my best friends before a partner.

Besides that, my personality in general I don't think will allow me to settle for very long. I've started to think about more casual dating just for the experience, and all the opportunities I could have to travel and meet people and experiment. I'm not the kind of person who can settle so soon.
At this point, it feels like I'm leading her on and I need to talk to her about it. Thoughts, anyone?

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9 years of her nothing but my encouragement from her lack of responsibilities that we talk about as long as i been with her if it weren't for me we would be on horders does nothing whatever i clean or organize she make a pile, lack of cooking, lack of cleaning. Because she says what she can or cant do which is nothing i don't put her down i do everything to encourage her nicely i say good morning babe breakfast in bed? Wanna do something together? Wanna stretch together Cook together hike together? I swear her whole life is all about games, tv, and bs excuses. I don't really feel complete when she is around i feel more relaxed when im not around her. when I am my energy feel drained and i get kinda depressed and have lost thoughts i realize this but for some reason i don't know why i am still trying with the relationship im dont really believe i don't wanna even be with her the same time. someone who love each other should have patience but if you love someone you can't change them don't want to be their boss because of irresponsiblity. Do i or we love each other enough to let them go i ask myself please comment for help

when you keep coming back to the same video

I love my wife

Signs you are with the wrong person:

-The inability to be flexible with each other. This includes giving understanding where it is due even if you really don’t understand it.

For example, my partner and I got in a pretty nasty argument one time. We never had been that way together before, but neither person was backing down and things started to become disrespectful with how heated we got. We are both strong willed. He ended up walking out in the middle without another word said and I had no clue if he was going to come back. He ended up texting later that evening and letting me know that he was not going to be coming back for a while(no direct timeframe) and that he needed some space. This type of situation would make a lot of unstable relationships break, but I gave my trust to him to reach out to me when he was ready.

I was flexible in that I gave him his space and not only that but took the time to understand it from his perspective as well. He was flexible by reaching out and also taking time to think about more than himself. He’s actually walked away from people without warning and never spoke to them again, just ghosted. Anyway, We both wrote down explorative questions to try to understand where our miscommunication and problem actually was. We had to step outside ourselves and give way for the other.

- Which leads to my next advice, it’s not just flexibility, but a willingness to be challenged and grow. You two are different people and therefore are bound to have differences that will challenge you in many different ways. Being able to grow with these is important whether it is growing stronger in your current believe or having the ability to accept when your view should change and grow in that sense.

-Ultimately, effort is not 50/50, however it should never consistently be one person putting the effort in. Having a realistic view of what efforts are, is important based on the individuals too.

She confessed to me first, but at the time I was in a situationship with some girl who inevitably went back to her ex. Then, I desperately asked her out near prom time. However, deep down, I was never that attracted to her and she’s not necessarily ugly, but there are some things that I know I personally like in a woman that she just sadly lacks. It also doesn’t help that she is really REALLY into me.

A lot of this advice would steer an avoidant to go with their usual unhealthy patterns of simply discarding their partner without explanation. This is horrific and traumatic to experience. In relationships that are not abusive, it IS important to analyze the why, so that you can give your partner 1) a chance to work on issues with you or, at the very least 2) so you can give them some sort of closure. Just going "i don't like how i feel right now. i'm going to quit" is super immature. Everyone at some point will not be totally happy in a long term relationship. You hit snags. It's part of it. If you chose each other--you work on it. Don't take abuse, but not being communicative and just leaving without explanation, is also abusive and can create needless trauma that can take years to recover from.

She love me but her interest and my interest is not same and i feel like distant because the more i talk with her i don't feel special it absolutely different

Oh boy, here I go breakin' up again..

I believe it’s better to be without someone than to be with the wrong one

Oh my gosh so true I’m currently experiencing these things… so accurate. Thanks for the video ! This really help my current relationship

Thank You!

The biggest sign were my dreams my subconscious gave me. I never had that in former relationships! In the 5 years of relationshit, I had dreams of how my partner ignored me instead his friends were more important, or I was aggressive towards him and screamed, he rejected me, those dreams were so weird, but now my therapist and I figured out why that relationship didn't work: I felt insecurity, from the beginning, when I was jealous or I told him what I thought he never answered with straight lines to calm me down what's usually normal when you love someone. Stuff like "Don't worry, you are the only one I love' or something like that, never. But to his defense, he wasn't so talkactive like me what's important when you have to discuss something, to develop together....wasn't the right person for me, but maybe for another.

How about when all the other person does is stares at you at work and nothing else. Dude is a piece of shit. Guess the other bitches in Eric baumann's life will figure out what he wants he's a real pos. Skinny big tits big ass. Dude needs help

You sound like a Cindy Campbell

You sound like Cindy Campbell

Ten years of NOT following my gut.

Terrible advice 😑

"If you enjoy the video"? Maybe "If you learned something with this video, please leave a like" would have been more accurate...

Thanks for the video still, it was helpful.

I hate being in this position. I'm attached and feel a sense of duty to her, but don't even like her, and don't have the guts to break it off. Dating sucks nowadays and I really just don't want to put myself through that crap again. The devil you know...

Yesterday I asked him " If we break up, would you be sad or upset if I'm with another man?" He replied saying: "If you still care and hang out with me I would not be very sad" After a year with him I discovered that he loved the emotional support I provided, he didn't love me, my heart is so broken especially when I remember every time I begged for his attention, he hasn't bought me a single flower this whole time

So we should have different personality but sharing the same principles!? How?

I just felt like it was a chore to talk to her for hours and sometimes when I prove her wrong she gets mad and I gotta apologize over and over and now I left her and I’m suffering

It’s not always about love, but duty. No one feels duty towards anyone anymore except maybe towards their kids. With time we all change and feelings do begin to fade and all that is left often times is duty!

I need help. I know I'm not in the right person, but I really love them. Is there anyway I could make us work?

As someone who is single, I can't relate to this

My girlfriend is deeply in love with me and I wish I felt how she did… but I swear is the healthiest relationship Iv been in and it’s awesome but also sad. all around great for her though but I don’t care and trying to come to yearns, at least I’m loved by someone and cared about and don’t worry about the feeling of rejection… i used to cry in my 20s because I just wanted to feel truly loved by someone… and I got it

The funniest part is that this is the healthiest relationship Iv ever been in and sad that im having hard time leaning in. I have no idea why I feel the way I feel with my girlfriend. It’s definitely her personality and is someone I’d never see myself with but she just understands me and is so loyal I don’t even care to talk to anyone else. I feel like it’s not worth my time dealing with other women and it bothers me because i truly don’t think it truly exists out there… there’s always going to be something you dislike about your partner but Iv been deeply in love but I never felt that with her and I think that’s why we do good together

The funniest part is that this is the healthiest relationship Iv ever been in and sad that im having hard time leaning in. I have no idea why I feel the way I feel with my girlfriend. It’s definitely her personality and is someone I’d never see myself with but she just understands me and is so loyal I don’t even care to talk to anyone else. I feel like it’s not worth my time dealing with other women and it bothers me because i truly don’t think it truly exists out there… there’s always going to be something you dislike about your partner but Iv been deeply in love but I never felt that with her and I think that’s why we do good together

1. Constantly unhappy. Check. Contempt building up.
2. High levels of stress...check.
3. Expection no being met ... check
4. You know problems at very beginning. Check. So many issues...stonewallin,
5. Gutt feeling. Check. Totally.
6.=Not conscientious. Checks. All about her and lazy
7. Too similar ..nope not an issue.
8. not same values .. totally check.

Need to break up////

Oof, 7 for 7… huh. Not going to leave her though, I don’t want to hurt her, and we’re logistically compatible (different from romantically compatible), it’s convenient, that’s why it works.

I can relate and thank you for this video.

Hey guys , Just want you to know that if you feel find... to many problems in your partener ,you might the wrong person for them ...as my current partener have told me that " relationship is supposed to make him feel happy , and i was giving him constant ultimatums , which made him feel bad " I immediately stopped doing that , but i like being straight forward so i told him that i want him to be in a proper relationship with me , not the one which is casual . He took some days but luckily he agreed .
I am little possesive but i can manage as i know how human behavior works . I am trying to change my bad habits , and not to make him feel bad in anyway .
It's totally fine if you sometime feel bad because of the things that your partener said , but look it's totally normal ...it's just a miscommunication in bw you two .
Always try to find a ways to solve the problem rather making a decision to break up ...cause you might regret doing that ...and broken shit can't get as it was before .

i came on here because my girlfriend can’t free style and this video only more proved my point i don’t think it’s that hard to just rap like 50 cent

So this thing is saying that I'm with the right person at the right time

if you are happy with your partner you'll not watching this video

7 Signs You May Be With The Wrong Person:

1. You searched for this video.

The fact that the person is very good towards me but I cannot bring myself to tell them that I might be the wrong person and just acting like I am in love is breaking my heart. I cannot hurt them no matter what. Can someone please help me out?

I no longer know if what I felt in my gut if Its hunger or thought

God know 🙏🏽you
And he knows before you were born

And you have to lern leaning on him rather than your own on your own understanding

Not everyone adapts because we shouldn't have to.. that's called settling and it's not healthy