Toxic friendships & friendship breakups

Tjoo what a topic

Women are scary! I don't believe in female friendships. I prefer to be polite and respect my fellow sisters at a distance. Yeyi, niyingozi kabi nina😂😂😂

For some of us who cant type please lets pray to have a voice note option here because these topic is hot😂😂

I sometimes wish I could tell that one "shhhh yinto yeKhaya le"🤭

Yhoo haa-aaaa she needs to be tamed, she is a lot!🙃

I missed this one , yheey I have a lot😊

This one breaks my heart ,I lost a 2oyr friend due to the 3rd friend she recruited along the way,I'm still broken, but another thing I have realized is that I'm also a jealous person, I wanted us to be alone only us.i don't believe in having more than one friend

It's always the small things we dismiss that end up causing us injuries in these bad friendships.

As I grow I learnt that there is no thing like a friend. I don't deal with such. Families I cut friendships I cut these are catalysts to your crave

As I grow I learnt that there is no thing like a friend. I don't deal with such. Families I cut friendships I cut these are catalysts to your crave

How l wish the other lady could have translated Sotho to English. Friends are dangerous 🤦‍♀️🙆‍♀️

I have come to realise that people tell stories in three ways
1. I am the victim -
2. Other people are villians
3. I am helpless
Usually the ones who accuse others of being toxic are usually the toxic ones. They have high expectations, do not compartmentalise people, have no boundaries, have serious attachment issues, very needy, have a need to be needed etc. It takes wisdom, healing and a lot of growth to point a finger at yourself when a friendship ends! Healing is much quicker when you make it about you because that is ALL you can control and change. No matter how flat a pancake is, it has two sides! Own your part bcos that is what you are responsible for! Forgive yourself and your ex friend. Let it go and learn from your mistakes. Do better and don't speak badly of them because at some point they were good to you. People come into our lives for us to experience them. We don't own them. Love people where they are and let them go. As much as we can disappoint ourselves, why do we expect different from others? They are human too with their own imperfections, just like you. This is how I live my life. I have peace because I have conversations with myself about my own behaviours and choices. I also have the gift of goodbye because I understand that each person is at a different stage of life/growth. It's okay to let go and for others to let go off you. Life goes on. Our destiny is not tied to anyone. Let us be kind to others. Bagaetsho we all have wounds. Some bigger than others. Amen.

What the lady from is inaccurate. You can definitely get a protection order from someone in Lesotho. My sister got one years ago from someone. And, if there is proof that this person hired a hit she can open a case against her. That is attempted murder and, there are serious laws against that. She must really take this seriously and, protect herself from this person.

😢U reminded me of one friend I had I was just coming from the hospital after having myomectomy surgery to remove a fibroids and she made up lies that I'm sleeping with her boyfriend just because he was taking good care of me. I had to stay days without food because he stopped cooking for me or checking if I needed anything.Maybe she wanted to end our friendship just that she knows I wouldn't do a thing to hurt her so she came up with rape stories just for me to be hated for something I didn't do. To myself surprise the boyfriend started acting up not to mention he never spoke to me ever but he knows he never touched but he went on and believed her girlfriend's lies. So it's ok that's how I learned how to be careful when it comes to friendships.

Same as transactional Relationship, the day you can’t give money 💰 then your friendship is broken 😅

The second lady. I don't understand the laughing. It's just quite uncomfortable to hear, especially concidering how serious what she's talking about is.