Narcissist Letter To Every Victim

That comment about hatred toward the victim—I think it’s the first time I’ve heard it. I’ve felt that from my brother, and my sister. It has always baffled me. I’m more able to see it now but it is a bitter pill to swallow. I’ve always thought they’d wake up and see what damage they’ve inflicted, but no, that’s the farthest from the truth. More than ever before I can see they are incapable of true integrity, self reflection and compassion. Thank you for this message.

YEP!!

It’s not just about an ex lover. Narcissists do this to everyone. The narc in my life is my husband’s ex wife. She’s been abusive to both of us, her children and everyone around her. Sometimes it’s a coworker. I’ve had a few of those too. Not just ex loves.

Yep. Exactly

Yep, this is exactly what is happening to me right now.

yep and yep, yep and yep even more

Yep

I can’t stop crying,this is exactly what he did to me🥺😔

Yep! 100%!

Yep!!

YEP YEP !!!!

🙏🏽🙏🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽😝😝😊yep yep

Yep!

Yep

Wow. This started to bring tears to my eyes. It almost felt like looking into the Soul of my Ex. If I believed he ever had one to begin with. 🍒

Y E P !!

YES

They have someone waiting in the wings when they leave, as they can't be on their own and this next person can't believe their luck they have met them, but with in a short time they will be doing the same things they did to you, to the new person and on and on it goes

Yep

Yep

I keep listening to this over and over. I have written it down 1000 times because it’s exactly the truth of what he did to me🙏🏻😔🥺

Yeap! That was the holy grail letter of the narc! Every last word of it!

Yep

Yep

Yuo

YEP

Yep....destroyers are they.

Yep

YEP!

Yes. Absolutely!

Yep

Yep

Yup

Yup!

Yuppp!!!

The opening lines of the letter exactly what the ex husband told me 17 years ago and over time he showed who he really is. I can't feel sorry for his girlfriend(she knew he was married when they met)I know that given time he will repeat with her what he did to me. Then it will be on to the next victim.

Whoever wrote this letter clearly has a degree of self awareness and ability for introspection. They know what drives their behaviour, they know the darkness within them, and the cruelty they’re inflicting. It’s such a shame they feel unable to beat it. I can feel the loneliness and despair in this person, and that’s what they project onto everyone they get close to. It’s tragic.

holy shit...

Yes definitely lied stolen from and cheated on

Yep 6 of them attached me
Proverbs chapter. 6
Things YHWH hates
They are examples

Yep. Thank you for this

Yep! I just broke up with my ex narc bf because he was cheating and lying to me. I blocked him, disconnected my second line. And I disappeared like a ghost!

Yep yep.

YEP !

“YEP”💔😢

Yep and WOW, too.

YEP

Yep. This is EXACTLY what I went through. Two months out, and finally starting to wrap my head around what she really is. It's almost impossible for me to believe people like this actually exist, but they do. They really do.

Yep

Narcs can’t love, they don’t have empathy, they use abuse and move on to next source of supply. They create drama, chaos, destruction wherever they go. They destroy their own families