Why Women Aren't Attracted To "Nice Guys”… | Oestrogen Expert Dr Sarah Hill

oh boy.....

This narrative excludes factors like mental health, depression, autism.

Confidence in a woman is letting your man hold the reins, letting him fight or go to war etc. It is NOT being a warrior-princess yourself. It's about submission, don't be a battleaxe.

Feminists NOTHING is wrong with her female daughter and NO NEED for improvement , but they believe that MEN can always do better lol

Why should it be different for her daughter and other women ? lol

Only simps like/ need a assertive boss woman

She’s basically saying what most people have come to understand…men are easier to attract because they mostly care about fertility. In turn these men have to do more/work harder to attract women they find attractive (i.e go to the gym, a study, work hard, attain wealth and be confident).

Whereas it doesn’t matter how beautiful a woman is and what she does to increase her attractiveness…fertility matters most.

Why are so many people triggered in the comments? It’s laughable.

According to the woman:
"...When it comes to men's attractiveness, it's all about instincts. Women can't help themselves and it is men who need to the job to aquier status, testosterone and muscles. But when it comes to women attractiveness, again women can't help. It's all about men's biases toward women..."!

She makes no sense. I wonder what kind of scientist she is with such an intellectual dishonesty! She doesn't even realize that men hate "plastic-surgery" women, Botox and those butt and lip fillers. How doesn't she know that? Because she is not a scientist.

She's full of bias and she just tell the feminism propaganda.
Her : Men need to improve and better themselves.
Also her : Women don't need to improve.
She just a misandrist.

Wow a comment section full of inc*ls and whining immature boys of all ages who are obsessed with women 24/7 but realize women aren’t with them and therefore hate women and the fact that nature implemented female choice.
Cringeworthy.

woman can't smell shit. :) Sorry - but let's stop justifing their stupid decisions with evolution biology. If they are not able to take responsibility for their actions - I'm 37 and I can smell young pussy then (using their logic) and women eggs so I go for 18-24 each time.... :):):)

Us nice guys will do fine without women, im enjoying my peace and money! Women can keep going after assholes and get treated like shit lol

Normally You are hosting people who know what they are saying...

They bend the rules for their offsprings and set unreasonable rules for others. Don’t take advice from those kind of people. They are not realistic.

Great question! By asking her about her own children, she made it personal. While talking to the girl, she was subconsciously speaking to herself, and it’s hard to say “you’re not enough” to yourself—it’s heartbreaking. As a man, you may need more time to find resources and build discipline to support a family, but that doesn’t mean you’re not enough. You are enough! Stop sharing cold, heartless advice as if it's science.

Typical western woman.. men need to work on themselves.. women are perfect, and if it doesnt work for them they are just "in the wrong dating market".. no need to work on yourself if you are perfect by default right?

A lot of men dont understand that life is full of double standards. Men have a burden of performance. Women are born with value. Their job is to maintain their value. To do this, women must not be 304s, not be a pain in the a**, not be fat or unattractive

Did I miss something or did this dialogue have less and less to do with actual "nice guys"? I have a learning disability that presents itself as lacking comprehension. Just wanna know if I should bother to rewatch.

Jezus Christ can it be any more superficial?

Young women are the most attractive and get the most attention..
Young women are inexperienced and immature.

Men don't choose women.
Men choose among the women that have already chosen him.

"If tomorrow women started preferring to have sex with men standing on their heads.
Soon, half the population would be standing on their heads."

I have to agree that this Dr Hill doesn't seem to know what she is talking about :D First of all, this type of "psychological" research that she seems to cite endlessly might have geographical, hence, cultural biases. Tremendous shortcomings of bioevolutionary scholarship... Well, Western sex dichotomy might produce results that she keeps citing, BUT if you expand research across different cultures, I strongly think that her shaky assertions, well, show shakiness in full color :D

So she saying women choose her partner more physical appearance right because she tells her son go to gym and tells her daughter just wait men come for you that means men like personality

Physically and mentally, men and women who work on bettering themselves for personal growth reasons, do find each other attractive in most cases. You are only a 'Nice guy' or even a 'Nice girl' when you havent got the first part nailed, while you act nice to the opposite sex in return for their favours that you think you deserve. Be a good person who genuinely shows up for themself and then for the one(s) he/she cares about. The way you act and how your relationships turn out is a reflection of who you are on the inside, so do not be let down if things don't work out. Don't concern yourself too much with a made-up clique, but be a decent and caring human being, although be ready to wade through a puddle of mud to reach your person. What you are; you will inevitably attract if you put yourself out there.

Telling your daughter to “wait” is not good advice. Due to female biology and the aging process women don’t have time to wait.

Keep the body tight not full of plastic

What absolute garbage!! She should stop giving advice or just stop talking altogether. Wrong ! Wrong! Wrong!

It depends what it is for me to be arrogant about something like for example I definitely get egotistical when talking about my kd in cod.

I can smell the menopause on this knight king stunt double

Like some of the things being said, and perhaps I am misunderstandig, but how can I take advice from someone who gives it but says they would tell their own daughter something different?

It's like she's never considered these issues in her entire life - shouldn't an expert already have worked out her opinion? So is her advice to women to get physical enhancements or not? Or she thinks that it is good advice but won't say that because...? Highly confusing.

Dr. Sarah Hill, not so bright ey. Very one dimensional thinking, for a doctor

Her research is heavily biased and right there I can't take her seriously.

Under what rock does he get these guest from?

This woman would do well to watch your previous video where you interviewed the woman about communication behavior, friendships, and relationships. She has a pattern of constantly finishing her sentence with a higher tone as if to ask a question every time she speaks.

Hypergamy, always looking to trade in for a move up

Bull fuckin shit! All nonsense peddled by these “pseudo intellectuals” to keep men guessing!

I am a nice guy with three younger sisters. I married late and am doing well. Now years later many of my sisters friends want me to be "aware of them". I have not changed and the life of long-term values is good. It's creepy to be pitched by women when I am not in the game and not interested.

Is there a point in their lives when women grow up and look for positive qualities in a man? It seems so immature and short sighted to seek out a person who burns bridges, ruins other people's lives and is a narcissist. I have known a gorgeous woman who was abused by men like this and she kept going back for more. And, the nice, good looking and put together guy she met, she dismissed.

What good is youth, beauty, and reproductive ability in a woman if she has a bad reputation? Isn’t a woman with a good reputation part of the status that a successful man seeks? Who is this expert?

Okay glad other comments are saying this too, she seems very phoney 😂

Amazing that your brains understand logic so innately that as you get bigger your anxiety lowers

Peaple that go to the gym dont work hard enough tell your son to get a job

All of these problems and beliefs stem from the nearly universal expectation women have that all men owe society and are obligated to provide for children they didn't have.

We're ready for equality when there are no social safety nets, and women who don't provide for themselves adequately don't have an abundance of options to avoid responsibility.

This video, like many others in this series, does not address the issue stated in the title. In fact, it didn't even come up.

Is she really qualified to talk about this stuff. For instance she said, if your a big dude you are gonna be able to protect yourself, WRONG. Am a small guy who weight trains and I can protect myself and friends that are bigger than me. I have two younger brothers both taller than me and a nephew who is about 6'4" and built like a heavy duty tow truck. My youngest brother said to me (his dad) how am I gonna make him stand up for himself cos am worried he will be a target, I said it's not that type of guy. So am gonna leave with this thought : it's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.