Why Change Is So Scary — and How to Unlock Its Potential | Maya Shankar | TED

For me , changing is so scary. Because I decided to go aboard. Then I have to leave my girlfriend in my country. My girlfriend wants me to start my own business . After that we should get engagement. The problem for me right now I have to follow goals first . Later I will get marry with her.
Sadly She didn't want my idea. Even didn't believe me at all.
So what should I focus. I really love her❤

Change is necessary, and it's eventually unavoidable.

Is not easy to accept the reality of change like you for example in the field of learning violin . And when the moment come to end a friendship it's painful to go through that trouble . But the life continues and we have no choice .the key to overcome that it's to keep in mind what we have around us such good health and family beside us .I remember one time I went to the countryside alone and i was feeling sad I would like to shared my walk with others instead to be alone but when I saw ahead in front of me someone coming in a wheel chair . I changed my thoughts asking myself look at this poor person can't walk like me . I can't complain myself .fix your gaze on what you have and not on what you don't have

We’ve become identical Paralysis and we tend to focus on the mediocre incapability which could have been the effective capability. All in all , it is essential to pursue what we enjoy while having the life-changing experiences. 🎉😊

I suggest one should accept and resolve the change, move on, and never look back, but forward to new challenges and opportunities.

I met Maya years ago in Cincinnati, and I’m inspired by how she was able to figure things out!

so amazing, educative and beautiful explanation ❤❤❤. she has a very beautiful voice and her sharing was so clear and inspiring

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I totally agree with it,sometimes changes push ourselves forward. Thank you for sharing your story. .

If you keep your life in the 'Now' you might find yourself, if you project to the future or if you regress into the past you will be miserable, you should try and not think, try and feel instead, if you want to learn about life and how to live it you must watch Eckhart Tolle the guy on the park bench. I don't think having an identity helps you, if you lose it you will be devastated, you need to think about what your problem is right now, this second, you will find you have no problems, you might be a scientist today but tomorrow you might die, you need to live your life in the now, that's the best time to do anything, the best time to start, the best time to finish, this is the only time we have.

Thank you for this awesome video. I am/was a violinist as a kid and your story resonated with me too. Perlman was my example and very impressive that you took private classes with him. I've struggled myself with all these changes and theorically speaking the only constant is change but how we navigate through it and the definitions and the way we talk to ourselves about what is happening is really important. You will be a mom, I'm sure. Maybe not as the society rules a mom should look like or the exact experience but as you mentioned motherhood developed or translated into the many projects and endevours you are pursuing in the present moment. Thank you and all the love to you.

Fascists actually tell the people …. The other guy is your enemy and I will protect you from them. Fascist label the enemy with as many derogatory identities as possible. Fascist concentrate on telling people how the other guy will oppress you. Fascist often flip reality and accuse their opponents of the exact crimes they are committing at that very moment. Who is trying to limit Free Speech? Who is accusing their opponents with blanket criminal characteristics without actually providing proof? Who is trying to out their opponents in prison on weak interpretations of the law? Who is controlling the Mai stream media and using it against their opponents? That is the fascist?

Change is scary, but so is staying the same

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Change is not always good

I was stuck in overthinking. But, with this lesson, I will try to change, change, change myself to fit my dream

Lovely woman❤love her spech.

This is an excellent, real woman.

Change is difficult because so scary but if you have determination or motivation to your life, a lot of things is easy to change . Always love yourself no matter what😍

On the other her husband searching why didn’t love her enough 😮