Matthew Hussey ON: How to Get Over Your Ex & Find True Love in Your Relationships

Everyone's solution is just move on to the next, next, next. You will be alone forever.

Thanks for this , very eye opening ❤

What do you think about the red pill men that follow Andrew Tate??

This has helped me so much. Peoples treatment towards you especially in the very beginning doesn't directly correlate to your true value. It's for their own reasons for themselves.

I thought my ex of a week now aftwr 7.5 months was the one . I've never been treated so well. He got caught up in how great I am on paper and looks and what I have to offer( lots of love). We were together nealry 24/7. He promised that he would never breakup, that he would marry me, figure issues out successfully together. Introduced me to his whole family very quickly. Asked me to a family trip out of state after 2 months of dating. Even when i tried to push him away due to my insecurities of our age differences he reassured and fought for us. Then he shut down abruptly in the last few weeks when things got more serious in reality (adulting and moving in together) and ended our relationship. He's 24 and i'm 36 next month. The age gap fear made me anxious and was made true. He wasn't ready for a relationship. I believe he thought a loving monogamous relationship would fill his void in his life. Hence why he moved us so fast and codependent to then crash and burn.

He completely flipped as a caring person who was my best friend. Now he avoids me and is so cold and rude. Looking back he didn't argue for the sake of us..he was defensive in lots of arguments. Didn't really want to consider my feelings and perspective. I had to work at helping him see my side and argue for us a team and not one vs the other.

I've started NC yesterday. It's tough but am excited for my growth and finding my person when I'm ready.

I need you!!! Don’t stop what you are doing 🙏🏻

I really like Matt that he's been trying to be honest, and constantly outdoes himself, "we're more dangerous" and his self-awareness is improving. He was more cocky when he's younger and how he's matured and has always been passionate. I wish more men would see him as role models instead of the 'top G' men rating women like cows.

Being a human being sucks. It's a gift to be here but it sucks sometimes.

I met an unrealistic man. Without knowing me he invited me to move in with him and to work at his company. I refused both offers with good arguments, but I hoped he will prove me wrong. 😅 he didn't. He is a player. He proved to me that age is just a number and a 45 years man can be as child as a teenager. I'm definitely not using dating apps ever again. Time wasters

I was a horrible partner in my 5.5 year relationship. It’s been 3 years and I feel I’ve grown so much & I could be an amazing partner. It breaks my heart I couldn’t have had this growth at the time & had to lose my partner to obtain it bc I wasn’t treating them or myself right. I’ve been unable to have any connections with anyone since.

I just lost my baby that I trusted and believed to a younger man.

The difference between someone that wants to engage with you and know you will ask questions to get to know you. If you are the only one asking questions to engage and they are not and they are only mirroring you, it is likely the conversation is being polite and the person is not trying to get to know who you are.

Umm lots relationships with big age gaps work better than the rest. Big assumptions??

Matthew if you're still available...I'm 45 😉

I’m convinced that my own negative thinking is making this breakup far worse than it actually was. That’s frustrating!

Wow ❤ just what I needed to hear and reaffirm. Particularly the section on how his view on love has changed.
Relationship competence is indeed attractive and romantic!

"You cannot change someone when they don't want to"

What are the relationship skills needed? Is there a list?

I am going through the worst breakup. It has been over a year. He lives across the street. It has been awful.

Im going through hell.. I cant even believe he is an ex to me now. We were together for almost 5 years, we were so in love for the first 3 years. things happened, we both transformed, and he grew distant eventually. I thought I wouldn’t have no problem moving on as I had already been feeling lonely for quite some time until at some point around our final months he told me he slept with another woman 3 times during the time we were distant. it broke me into thousands of pieces.. however I decided to forgive him, do some self reflections, and we got somewhat closer and more intimate than ever after that. in the end he decided to leave me for whatever reasons he could think of; our age gap, how his parents don’t like me, how he thinks he doesn’t deserve me and etc.. nothing I said or do could convince him to stay anymore. He gave up on us.

Im in shambles. completely. but I shall take this moment to realize that he has done his best and so have I. now its time for me to heal and feel complete on my own again. freaking hell lol

I laughed and cried watching this! I really enjoyed hearing both of yalls perspectives! It was very insightful and pushed me more to let go and heal. Thank you!!!❤

tough times dont last tough people do

1 hour 14 minutes... "subjugate my own needs to serve him" and then the abndonment demon.
Thank you both for this. Best podcast for me, Jay. I didnt have any expectations but the penny dropped!

I was really touched by this message thanks guyz😊❤

This Gentleman is so authentic and raw, he is highly aligned with what he shared as being his purpose! Still!

Brilliant. So much to absorb , but so worth it.

I feel like I don't know how to continue in life to be honest. It hits me in waves

Great podcast . Feeling a bit better now .

Both of you humble yourselves so much in these videos and I appreciate that so much!

As I had gone through so many financial problems, I was almost giving up. Thankful for the financial advice and trading tips I got of late which have helped me so much despite the drop in crypto prices. Since I started investing in crypto with $4,345 a few weeks ago, my portfolio has grown to $18,539 so far.

Abandonment demons I relate so much to this. As always so inspiring and uplifting discussion and topics . Thank you 🙏

My favourite speaker Jay genius l love his speech very much.

Within the first 20 seconds of the video, you just summarize what I’m feeling… Thank you for the acknowledgment, and I look forward to your guidance and insight…
Much respect to you both

Fact that mathew watch and giving references from animes is ❤

It’s so hard it’s my 3 time watching this video the beginning of the year in march and now we both try but it wasn’t meant to be I guess

"They weren't your type, they were your pattern "

I know a couple of people that would benefit from this video

"How we argue"...so important. Childhood trauma and the triangle (victim, hero, etc..) can really figure in to this.

Thank you for this talk. The part about being abandoned resonated with me deeply. I’m so grateful for this insight.

My hearts broken. After 8 years

It's been 6 weeks and wife walked out recorded everything together 15 years and left I've done no contact and nothing negative since walking away. I moved out and am waiting for the lawyers to talk it's been hard not to reach out though

This video is gold

The Golden Rule was pronounced by Jesus, not Confucius!

What’s good everyone. Currently separated and my wife Moved on Instantly.. I’m really really struggling! But, I’m pushing through. I’m praying for everyone going through a Traumatic time. Peace & Love.

You have done something really special Jay. I watched you grow and have respected and appreciated everything you do for us and how much you care about our mental well-being. Thank you, you are light in this confusing world. 🙏🏼🕊

Great interview! 💪🏽

❤🙏 to Mathew and Jay. You are so right 💯

Good message for me and everyone else.