Korean Dating Culture 101

There’s a fine line between being cute and cringe 😂

I wanna come to korea just to meet you :))

Wait just 1-2 months to have sex? Whoa thats hella quick. It really shouldn’t happen unless youre dead serious about this person being the one

I think the blind date rule is a good idea. You can tell pretty soon if you want to continue seeing someone.

Are love motels seedy?

Do Korean women use contraceptives like the Pill? Do they expect men to use condoms?

I thought Koreans don't have sex before marriage. I think this is how most Asian cultures work. But maybe I'm wrong about this. Then is virginity a big issue for a guy?! because Virginity really matters here in my country.

I would like to hear about contraceptions. What is the most common couple use? Example Lot of guy dont like condom,woman don't want to take pills because of side effects, the pull out method isnt safe. Im curios about this topic

I think I fell in love with both you and your videos .....

I have lived in Seoul for 3 years; I am watching your clip to understand Korean culture. :))

I'm so happy that I find this channel

I mean I find Koreans the most attractive race and after hearing this they aren’t judgemental on men needing to be ‘manly’ even though we’re meant to be past the days of gender roles.

i even like this video too jesus christ

I'm curious, has Korea always been accepting of men who act cutesy? What about forty years ago? Was it a different story? Did it evolve? And if so, how did it evolve to be this way?

aww i love this cuteness

Where I live a guy will see you and say I like you or most of the time it's I love you with out actually getting to know or date you, when a relationship starts they don't say let's date 🤷‍♀️. I learn that word a bit late.

I wish someone would answer this question but is it a Korean thing to kind of imitate someone they seem to like or someone who just became their ex? I had a Korean ex "friend" who seems to kind of always imitate me and my actions from time to time even after we stopped talking to each other and it's driving me crazy LOL. If it's a Korean thing, what does it mean when a Korean imitates you even if you're no longer in good terms with them? Please answer my question, thanks.

Korean men in Korea should be labeled as Losers and pushover men feminists.

I'm Korean/American and in America you dont act "cute" or feminine in any way if you want to attracted a female girl.
As a Korean/American you have to act Tough, Manley, someone who can keep you safe who is Alpha Dog of the pack.

Personally I think you Korean women from Korea would like American men better if you experienced men in America.

In my 32years of living I've only dated white women..I'm Asian and never dated my own race before...

i'm surprised u had boyfriends before cuw what ur saying is litteraly against dating them

I wonder what do older people think about aegyo. It’s weird to me not accepting for example gay femme guys but it’s fine for a cis straight guy to act “feminine and cute”.

Soft masculinity is in trend👈👌

Im sorry im a foreigner that lives in korea and number 3 is totally not real. Most of the times you sleep together first time and from there you can decide if you want a relationship or not.

I'm American, and making out in public isn't considered acceptable in American culture either. In fact, many high schools in the US has specific rules against making out in the halls. PDA is appropriate within limits in the US. Holding hands, hugging, or a little peck is generally considered appropriate in American culture, but there is a line that is expected to be drawn in our culture.

Gam sa ham ni da Kelsey 🙏 for the compilation and summing things up nicely 😊👍

The problem is after watching this and your videos I feel like wanting to date you 😍😅
Cheers George

So my understanding is taboo to show affection in the public , good to know and informative.

lesson learn don't find him let that person finds you girl If he truly loves you he gives you his time .....cute guys they are always give me a headache lmao

Korean girls are so hot but the dating culture sounds awful. I’ll stick to white girls.

What is gay dating like, I wonder. DO people ever date, or is it mostly hookups? Also, 2-3 months is a lot + I would be terrified of having to have sex without warning. I need to know the exact time and location in advance, so that I can wash, groom, choose what to wear, etc. Just popping into a love hotel on a whim is like ...v brave

If it's the way the relationship works in another country, it should be respected. Not every place is the same...Love your videos & the information you share. It makes me miss being international...💖💗💞

Nice video: point 2 is also quite normal in Malta too, after a few dates we'd probably say "so do u wanna be my gf?" Or she'd say "so can I call u my bf?" and yeah we could also break up after a month or so, 3-6 months would be a normal relationship, if it gets longer it would be getting more serious

uhh how do you find love motels? google isn;t helpful

Something about this lady makes me outraged and I have no clue why. She would annoy me within seconds and I’d have to leave the room so I don’t feel like putting my fist through a wall lol

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?!

Exactly, acting "cute" if you're an American guy would be considered "gay". It's rather refreshing that guys can be cute and act silly and fun and affectionate with each other.

I like big muscle men, so I guess im the opposite of the norm in most cultures. lol it's sad that the majority of muscular characters are only found in BL. It's like they're trying to tell me I can't have what I want. 😅 Oh well.

I actually like the 3-dates rule, I like the intentional character of it

Hi Kelsey, I know it’s been years since you made this (prob won’t see this comment), but what are your thoughts about a 32F Korean Doctor dating a 27M gamer?

Is it unlikely for the Korean doctor to ‘date down’ from a socioeconomic POV?

what?! #2 is how people pick the wrong partner.

We used to honour ideas of courtship after 3 dates in the West decades ago but now no one here gives a crap. I respect a lot of the standards Korean's have and the culture fascinates me.

If you don't 50 50 + say no to love motels. korean boys will have back talk. facts

Can you help me? I live in Canada, and this beautifully cute and awkward Korean girl started chatting me up and I immediately jumped on the opportunity and quickly she was interested. But I was working but she was next door working as well. So I stopped in the shop to ask her for her number and I immediately saw she was serving customers, it wasn't good. Other ladies in the cafe like looking at me lol. I was probably shyembaressed but she totally felt like she wanted to be asked out but I didn't. I just said maybe some other day. And I left. But now I'm kicking myself, and I want to go back and stop by, see if she has time to speak to me.

red flag 101!!

Korean girls and guys cheat on each other and they lie a lot about it

Can k-pop singrs date? And will thay just out of the blue ask you to merry theme?

Timeline in description box if ur only looking for certain info😝