RESPECT means DIFFERENT things to MEN and WOMEN, or: where have all the real men gone?

This was helpful. Thanks!

—A Woman

i disagree with that. i can respect across and see a woman on an equal level. it’s not always up. I definitely can’t respect down

wow great video. he explained it perfectly and I learned alot today.

Never thought of it that way…but I can’t imagine fucking something worthy of respect!

Perhaps you are too young to understand the problem. The attitude of men towards women changed a lot in the last 50 or so years. I can see it very well, my daughters, young women have noticed that even in the last 15 years or so.
Admiration has existed since always, the way what men do with it changed. In high school and uni I was a popular girl, not only I. That did not stop boys or young men to be also friends, to show initiative even if they saw very little chance to charm a girl. Like in many aspects of social life now.,everything seems to be TOO difficult. It is easier to give up.
You are absolutely wrong.

No deference = disinterested take-take-take ???

You nailed it.

Best video

Have you never seen any man and woman who love each other? Are you all coming from broken families, really? The world doesn't work like that.

Your notions of respect being equivalent to submission. Are absolutely laughable.

The fact that you say that respect can't go downwards. Indicates to me that you're detached from reality.

Respect is not equivalent to deference. Sorry. No. You're wrong.

The wife goes to her hairdresser, takes 4 hours for a 2 hour hair coloring. When she gets home we’re having dinner. I asked her nicely that she should’ve messaged me that it was going to take longer than usual because the stylist had a client that asked for more things that took more time. She got triggered and said “don’t time me I’m not doing anything wrong. I texted you and let you know that she was almost done.” Then it took 2 hours for her to get home after the text. I told her very nicely that I was concerned. She said, “you’re always timing me. Don’t time me!

Spot-on here.

All of yall talking about traditional this, traditional that. Trading doeent exist anymore. 76% of moms are working moms. Its not ever going back to traditionalist unless she chooses to and you make traditional money to support her and the whole family.

Women will ALWAYS find a way to nag you for nothing. Solved that, 8 garbage bags and new locks by the door when she got home from work. SETTLED.

This makes me think back to when I was a teenager and the girls at my school said they wanted a good Christian man. I tried to be a good Christian person and this made me unattractive to the girls (among other things). I realized by the time I graduated that what they really meant was they wanted a man who went to Church but not necessarily took the teachings of the Scriptures seriously. Strange though even after realizing this I continued to devote myself to the Scriptures🤔🤨. I guess by this point it had warped into an unhealthy obsession 🤷🏾‍♂️.

Dang these comments are crazy 😂

Very insightful info 😘

I am surprised how you can even think to discuss with a woman with rationality and reason, Dr. Taraban.. 😅😂

This was confusing.

Good food for thought, thanks!

I like Consideration better.

Men put women on a pedestal. That’s what my ex said to me once that he put me on a pedestal. Funny thing is it sure as hell didn’t seem like it! I dare say most women don’t see that from men.

What a brilliant video. Left me puzzled on the meaning of the word respect. So I googled the definitions and it's funny - there're several meaning of course, but what's borderline ridiculous is that the example sentences given don't match the definition they're attached to in the dictionary! Check out Cambridge dictionary, but also others

So what you’re saying is that men have no idea what respect means. You (unintentionally) just made men look like idiots.

And for the record, respecting an individual (your spouse) and respecting an event (a funeral) are two VERY different types of respect but you’re saying that men can’t tell the difference? Wow. I think I just lost respect for men!

I'll be honest tho it's embarrassing to admit, we women (Most, not all) Want to be treated like a lady in public but absolutely be your rag doll in bedroom. Not a degrading sort of way, but in a way that show the guy wants me so much that he can't control 😂 i know fuxked up but that's how we roll. And you're absolutely right about the respect and sexuality thing, if i feel respected like a lady in bedroom then my sexuality gets suppressed cus now i need to be "good woman" But when a man treats me like his slut..... I got no shame being his slut cus he already thinks of me that way 😂

A woman is a agent of chaos. If a woman is emotionally more mature than a man why do they act like that then.
We man are more mature because we need to keep our emotions in check. a woman doesn't.

There is no fulfillment in “having sex” with someone who doesn’t respect you, is using your body as a tool to satisfy themselves sexually, doesn’t care if you’re uncomfortable or in pain during sex, doesn’t care if you’re enjoying yourself, isn’t fully present or is picturing someone else while they are having sex with you! Being intimate with my husband knowing that we get to pleasure each other and there is nothing wrong or dirty about it, so beautiful. He knows that I share by body and heart with no one else .
My husband gets to have great sex when he respects the f..k out of me!! Pun intended 🍆🍑🤝❤

This particular video touched the nerve for me and made me watch other Orion content. The issue of respect is indeed very triggering.

I think you´re right

Womens respect:give me what i want
Mens respect: treat people as you want to be treated

I think you’ve explained it perfectly!👌👏 Thank you for making it simple and clear

Yes but wicket people are like womens they are Curse in to your life who r bon again but they are like a Snake in to your life

As a woman being respected means my words, feelings, and desires are not just considered but honored. It means my partner would listen and be present, really try to understand, honor my boundaries. Me respecting a man as MY man would mean i respect and seek his leadership, i respect and accept his protection, not because i cannot do it myself but because i want to be in partnership with him. Him respecting me would be honoring my feminine, and me respecting him would be honoring his masculine. There is humility and love on both sides. It is not that women don't want to be pursued. We just want it to be a flirty dance of feminine and masculine rather than a predatory chase when no means no.

I think you got this completely wrong. I would refer you to Zan Perrion who is an expert on the subject.

so now we need a video about what respects means for women, am I right ?

respect and sexuality exclude another: this is to be seen magnificently in old European troubadourism.
Troubadours were singing songs of "high love" to the aristocratic lady who they will never (and don't want to) sleep with.
It is a holy kind of love, not a mundane one.

If monogamy was not programmed into women, none of this would be talked about. If men stopped believing that marriage and commitment is all about love and romance, this wouldn't be an issue. You men need to stop acting like women love you for you. Tell you woman that you'd like for her to be monogamous and that you can sleep with other women. We'll see how much she loves you then. The greatest women and dead and gone. You men need to stop seeking unicorns and p-stars, they're not coming to you. I'm a married man and wouldn't recommend monogamous marriage to any man on this planet; not even my own son.

Some ideas do make sense, but it still seems geared toward broad content that's easier to sell, resulting in a somewhat superficial approach to market relations. I believe the doctor's experience and education could genuinely elevate both women and men to a higher level.

To use an analogy: some stimulants can be used casually, like drinking instant coffee. Alternatively, these substances can be part of profound religious or sacred practices, much like savoring a tea ceremony or enjoying a well-crafted coffee made by an expert barista—experiences that elevate and enrich our lives, though they aren't meant for daily indulgence. The same principle applies to sex and relationships. If you're seeking or offering superficial connections that can be easily replaced, then go ahead—there’s a Starbucks on every corner, a testament to a thriving real estate business. But I don't drink coffee there😅

It's often difficult for men to grasp that when a woman sets a high standard by example, it fosters the growth of humanity as a whole.

In any case, thanks for the channel. I hope it will help both men and women engage in productive conversations, gain a better understanding of themselves and their partners, and achieve the outcomes they desire ❤

I think that this, like so many other suggestions you make, makes perfect sense if you assume that women generally act in good faith.

I also think that all available evidence shows that essentially no women act in good faith. The variation there is just how conscious they are about their bad faith behavior.

In this specific case, nobody in human history has presented evidence that women either can or want to be satisfied.

Deference has no place in a healthy relationship.

Why are men the ones that have to learn all this stupid psychological crap in order to make a relationship work or to get women? I’m sick of fighting myself in order to try and play these stupid games with women. But its 100% necessary. I go back and forth. You can not be a nice guy and keep a woman happy. You have to be a dick sometimes or they lose attraction for you and stop respecting you. Sometimes you have to be a dick for no reason. I see why some people are gay but that’s not gonna work for me either. Haha

Orion seems to understand me without even knowing me😮

😂😂you had sex respectfully😅

Excellent I am the Captain Doc hence 30 year relationship 2nd relationship 100% emotional decision dumb dumb by me hehehe 😂

What a great way to put it!
"like whoa oh you respected the shit out of me last night" 😂

Respected to a street. One idiot is stuck on being called trash But words are nothing compared to the disrespectful actions against me. The other is just concerned with how they can profit from me. Both are selfish arrogant Narcissistic Deceivers and are truly trash!

God doesn't make man like he use to or God never did
Sorry to say this
I know my grandsons are consciously better human being