Jordan Peterson - Make YOUR RELATIONSHIPS last FOREVER by DOING THIS

This video describes me… I hate I am like this, hate that I criticise like this. I will try to improve.

Thank you

I´m going to watch it every day from now on.

Beware of Jordan peterson and nazi mind controlling techniques

Aren't you just about the funniest person. Thanks for the big laugh. 😂😂

You be right and I’ll be happy 😊

IF you are living with a nomal human it wiil be easy. But if you are living with a narcissist thats another story .Jordan Peterson you is a boss i listen to you all the time.

What is with people who yell at their partners or other people? I have never in my life yelled and screamed at anyone, ever. There just be some seriously fucked up people on this planet.

Theres a problem when in front of you ,you got a selfish person who listen only when she wants . It would be okey if it wasnt like your parent/bro/sister/kid/lover and just someone you meet sometimes . But when you got to deal with em everyday , you just start to find a way to get listened at one point weither by good or bad way

What if you do this but your partner still disregards what you say

Only works if your partner listens & hears.

Chcę zaznaczyć przy Tym ze nie należę do osób kochliwych.

Trudno jest to jednoznacznie zdefiniować.

Sama kiedyś wzięłam się pod uwagę wzięłam pod uwagę ( samokrytyka)

Mnóstwo pytań
Odpowiedzi dostałam.

Tak jestem stała w uczuciach brałam pod uwagę również swoje nieudane zwiazki.

Byłam w szoku jak to odkryłam.

Myślę że kochamy za każdym razem inaczej.
Wedle potrzeby.

Jest to niesprawiedliwe wobec ....
A zdanie sobie z tego sprawy było ...
U mnie wyglądało to nieco inaczej.
Oszukać!

Nie ma stałych uczyć w związku w związkach partnerskich.
To liczymy w mini dekadach
Od eksplozji cielęcej miłości (hormony ) zabawa etc..
Po drodze zależnie od statusu materialnego przechodzimy w fazę prokreacji powiększenia z wybranym partnerem potomstwa.

Te czasy mówią o wyborze nawet odpowiedniego nasienia
Stał się wymogiem

Nie doszukałem się tu uczuć.

Well first and foremost that sounds to me like I'm Somebodies prisoner not wife and if your gonna put it like your about to punish me ever for anything at all im here to inform u that you've definately got the wrong one and controll ain't gonna happen either...forced anything is gonna get instant buckoff and buckdown...

This actually work if manipulative/ narcissist behaviors were address first. It can be as simple as (you said) to be used to give you a manipulative trait. Then you have a mental illness. Which isn’t good like someone who is a percussive psychopath who like to bring a persuasive torture who is manipulator/narcissistic which are abusers of any kind. Also they know dying is to east and use longitudinal-waves.brain thinks with words so beware of your nightmares specially the ones you can’t remember. 🪶 I’m athiest, like the owns that make and sell the Bible and form religions. Also approve of a persuasive well being aka influencer for better cause.

Only in a perfect world. When they openly ignore your BASIC request or requests, repeatedly, or sits by idle when their own kids do the same, it WILL end up in that nasty argument again and again. I could stand back and say, "was I being overbearing or have unrealistic expectations?" NO- I sat by idle for periods of time and ingored it to keep the peace but my kindness only resulted in MORE exploitation and more rudeness because they flat out respected NO ONE'S boundaries, no one's property not even their own. Horrific "parenting", lazy and complacent and put ALL the blame onto someone else at all times. Stupid me.

first I'll love to say never let doubt put you in a critical situation.i never believed I could get back my relationship but it came to reality, with the help of the great spell caster Dr Apeh

first I'll love to say never let doubt put you in a critical situation.i never believed I could get back my relationship but it came to reality, with the help of the great spell caster Dr Apeh

first I'll love to say never let doubt put you in a critical situation.i never believed I could get back my relationship but it came to reality, with the help of the great spell caster Dr Apeh

Positive reinforcement

Who would say that someone you love is [stupid].

ALWAYS, just say what you would like to happen. In a calm voice just say, In would be happier if you did this!

Literally been doing this. My ex always said:" yeah running away from problems"

Like i said none of yoll biz but you in so fuck read all of what i said befor your run your mouths.

No i pretty much can your pertty eazy

I'm pretty sure this doesn't apply to Spanish women 😢

I'm moved by the genuine depth of this content. A book with parallel ideas transformed my life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

Peterson isnin constant turmoil within himself. Hes on the edge of a nervous breakdown constantly. Im not taking advice from that type of energy

I'm already have her ☯️ she always in my heart.

Doesn't work, she is too defensive

Nobodys ever gonna want anything to do with me since the bolts disappear from the wheels of my car and someone comes into my home while im at work

I hear people laughing, and I agree, some of it is funny, but this really hit me hard. I wish I would have done these things and learned how to be an acceptable partner.

The man:
Apologize all the time regardless if you did anything.
Always listen and obey.
Never be happy again and have no reason to smile.
The women:
Bitxh, moan, whine, fight, argue, and complain. Repeat.

MGTOW!!!!!!

Even a dog knows to show affection when you come home.

Masculine men never argue with anybody.

If you're reading this comment, it's not
too late; you've already been immensely
blessed with an abundance of love, wealth,
luck, health, joy, and whatever else your
heart desires!! I'm so proud of you for
surviving everything you've been through
This is your sign to go after what your
heart most desires for the highest good,
it's your time to shine.

Have the damn argument

Now what if this is the first time im seeing this video but this tbh is what I've been trying to do with my girlfriend but instead of being receptive to it it was more like her claiming the prize and me being stuck not being enough, and also tried tried the sex thing and it became more of a even tho we follow it its becoming too much type of scenario . This led to an awful breakup for me because i truly was in love and now have insecurities about if she ever really loved me now. But really all im saying is I didnt even know about this and oddly enough its what I was going through and attempting unconsciously 😅

I tell him the things he did right and the ones that was bad that I didnt liked...he doest care
I tell him how I like things .. he doest change
I try set a bare minimum things for him to do and he just dont do
if we both sit and talk with patience .. the other day he is always the same
he never changed for me or tried for me and even said he dont want to commit to me
passed years and I dont know what to do at this point
for a long time videos tells me hes an idiot , friends tells me hes an idiot ... my own mind tells me hes an idiot ... himself he also admits hes not commiting to me and being far etc
WHAT SHOULD i DOOO ??

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I like Jordan Peterson a lot. I also think it is so great to help people consider how they are ruining their hoped for outcome by fighting.... Along with this, I must say one problem I have with 'I have a peculiarity/ greet me when I come home' is that it is a mode of interaction that takes control of the other person, & directs them how to act & treat you. That is just a bit off to me. I think that would work IF you first agree to run your relationship that way- open the door for letting each other know your 'love language,' & when you feel loved & what is done where you don't... at a set time, for both parties. Otherwise, you could also get the focus off yourself, & "do unto others as you would wish for them to do to you." How about, when you come in the door, you decided, "Yes, connecting is important." So YOU make the effort, to go show your great joy to see THEM. Ultimately, it will create a great dynamic, that will feed in a positive direction, so it is not a loss if you focus on your part, what you can give.

I have a very dark side to me an I tame her very well but I do know if one person comes around she will come out

This is what I haven’t been telling her. She didn’t listen she wanted her way and she wanted to be that way as soon as possible without caring how I felt or what I delt with all she wanted was to make sure she was happy and she got what she wanted. After putting me through hell for years and I stayed by her side. I struggled and she left expecting me to put myself together after she broken me. I noticed it’s and it wasn’t fair. So I pushed myself back a little because I wanted her to appreciate and love me for me and for what I could provide at the moment. Instead of loving the idea of who she wanted me to be. I do things for her and the next day she will forget and ask for something different. Never really appreciated the fact that I got her something. She cared more about what I get her. And that hurt me and brought up a person of me that had only anger. And tired of being pushed around. She noticed I stopped trying. And i know it was not the right respond but it was how I felt at the moment. I did things here and there because I really do love her. But I stoped doing big things for here because she never appreciated me