I Grew Up In An Orphanage (Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 65 | Season 3

💔💔💔💔 All we do is think about money and forget how blessed we are with family and in life in general

💔💔💔💔 All we do is think about money and forget how blessed we are with family and in life in general

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I went to highschool with Khanyesa. I have heard parts of this story before. But now I am hearing it as a mother. I can't imagine my life without my daughter and I can't help but feel this deep sadness for your mom and what she went through as well. Anyway, I am so proud of you. Keep flying high butterfly❤

We r back let's unpack ❤❤

This is very bad. So sad 😞

Khanyisa’s mother though. Why do people have kids when they can’t give them a good quality of life. 😢😭
As parents we need to do better.

Ncono seyibuyile besesiyitayele....iyasakha iyasifundzisa isidvudvute

Mbali - I could not finish this story. I cried so much 💔.

We back! Let's unpack.

Iyoh Mbali 😥u have been through it all, iyoh familes are evil sometimes

I never understood family members who protect rapists. Sies

Welcome back Relebogile.❤️

Welcome back mama love an light for the ladies 🤍

If you want to get away with a crime in South Africa commit a crime against a woman... Even with evidence you'll get away with it it's soooo infuriating now you must live in the same house as someone who sexually assaulted you... How can a six year old lie and I know for sure it was women who told her she's lying we are the worst to each other... Always victim blaming and protecting abusers its sickening...

I am here for my sister uMbali 🙏🏽

You ladies are both amazing.

Happy New Year si si i REALLY missed you!!! 2022 here we go....🌺🌺🌺🌺🙏🏽🙏🏽

can we please have part 2 uploaded

From now on when i go to price giving will shout for every child as i wont know who is with the parets or not, i know it will put a smile on one of the kids.

OMG I can relate to Khanyisa about not being able to stay in one place for long. I’m always looking to move.

Failing is usually blessing in disguise... it happened to me too,I failed grade 11 and it was a turning point for me too
Never saw a psychologist but I've been praying my way out
Trust me things are much better now

Family 💔💔💔💔 how can a 6 year old want attention, how does a child lie... Ohh I am so hurt 😭 I am so sorry Mbali 😔

Poor.. beautiful... girls suffered... it's so painfully... really.....

This story is infuriating, such an evil family all of them. I am so angry on her behalf. I wish lightning could strike each and everyone of them. all of them. I need to pray for my heart :(.

It's been a while heyy . Hello to everyone.

I think 🤔 with mbali's case it was that time when there was a myth that said if one who was Hiv positive could be cured by sleeping with a virgin mnk mmm hurting

I love this show, Ausi waka mosebetsi o motle. U healing us through other peoples stories

Why I'm crying .I'm such a cry bby

Eish people should learn to explain things to kids its so sad to figure out on your own, imagine getting to know that yo mum murdered yo Dad on yo own, too hard to process.I remember i got to know about my mum's death when i saw her death certificate,im now 35 up to now no one has explained what happened to her,events leading to her death.I think this is more prominent in black communities,no explanation.

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Mbalis story is just taking me back from where I come from. I was Raped by my uncle when I was 6 years in 1998 I told my grandmother I was promised to be kicked out in the house if I tell my mom. In 2020 September I decided to tell my mom and everyone but I was blamed and told that besikhwelana ikuphi inkinga. I never wanted him to be arrested I just wanted him to apologize but he made it worse with insult n the family supported him. I'm sorry Mbali ❤

Lucky you girl someone noticed you at school for me no body noticed no body cared when my uncle raped me at 7 years till I was 10 i ran away from home to stay with relatives he died even today I've never told any one in my family because he was respective person they would say I'm lying thou life goes on I'm 35 years now

Wow, thank you for sharing your stories beautiful ladies. Lebo, keep doing the things that make the pots! I love your work♥️♥️♥️♥️

The justice system and family failed Mbali💔

Relatives/Family tend to be cruel when the biological parents pass away or aren't around. Growing up in an orphanage is a blessing in disguise. I'd rather that then stay with relatives. Ba cruel kabi labo

I am really sorry you both experienced this. I didn't grow up with my parents but my grandmother made life feel like I had everything. I love you both. God bless

Hi beautiful galz,much ♥️♥️❤️💖 from 🇰🇪

Yoh 😩 ea people got through a lot .

I am privileged to be working at a children's home❤️🇿🇼

These 2 ladies looked so much like twins

Family will always fail you & side with a perpetrator.. so sickening

Some families are hell💔💔💔💔

I relate soo much with Mbali, the clothes and food were the it thing for me as well when I arrived on my first orphanage 😂😂and the shower with warm water😂😂😂.

I am very disappointed and disgusted with Mbali's family 😢

I think you cut the story of the second lady when she's trying to explain different treatment from being at home and orphanage home where she talks about "asking for a sugar if they run out of it "I really wanted to hear that part

😭 There's a special place in hell for child molesters. All crimes are bad but this is the 1 I can't wrap my head around. I just can't.

You know internalized misogyny is real when women worship the grounds men walk on even at the expense of women who become victims at the hands of men. We really need to do better, this is disgusting. Love and light to the two beauties ♥️

How old was the uncle?

I also grew up at an orphanage . Its so good to see the world talking to us about our lives too and not only focusing on the orphanage as an institution disregarding the little helpless humans that exist in that space, when I left the orphanage at 18 I struggled to fit into the outside world, I felt the need to always pick the back seat everywhere. Thank you for this platform🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽