When she's not giving you sex, avoid these 5 mistakes

Gee Jessica, looks like 90% disagree with your advice; might want to rethink your outlook. I wonder what advice you would give to a woman who's man stopped giving her emotional support.

Lol, better just to stay single. I'm loving life as a single man. Men if you have to have a woman! Get a strong 6. A female who is a strong 6 is more likely to go 50/50 on everything because she doesn't have many options. Do not fall in love. Relationships these days are business opportunities. Not such thing as Love.

All Men thats dealing with this put your drinks in the air and say "Fuck bad bitches smoke big blunts who am I to tell you different you only live once"...

This time span is 12months,24months,36months without little love

Her conducting sexual abuse is the real red flag, sexless relationships / marriage is sexual abuse

An incredible and well detailed advices

Let’s assume you have been with a girl for almost a year and she haven’t asked you for a sex for a single day, what does it mean?

Guys what it means if a girl don’t ask you for sex for a single day about almost a year, but if you want to have sex with her unless you force her .what does it mean

Why does it matter what category she puts you in

Gotta be the craziest advice I’ve ever heard.

I love the angel Jessica is coming from. It's mostly about the kind of person she is, what values she upholds. Though most women don't give in into sex easily so as for you not to tag her as a loose woman. Therefore, we guys need to be patient with them most times unless it's transactional

Men control the relationship direction and Women control the direction of sex. Is it unfair for her to take up my time, attention, and money with no intention to have sex? We have an opportunity to share each other's bodies. Her body is not any more important than my body.

sorry to say but #1 is the key . Ofc try to do your job first and talk it out, make sure to text as proof, have plenty convos , and last but not least do exactly the opposite of what this video says on #1. women want what they can't have, they always play games !. ever wonder why you care so much when your with one women, but if you just dating around you could care less what one says cause you got options?. when you have options they try to trap you so they can have your full attention , so if she not maintaining that, be kind to work it out/talk it out, and if she doesn't listen ..... shift your focus on others !!!. there's no other answer !!

If a guy refused to do a favour it's red flag but if a woman refused to give s*x it's maturity?

If both parties are not on the best of terms, it is agreeable that sex should not take place. Why have “meaningless sex” with each other if both parties are not on good terms? It only becomes a problem when he or she weaponizes sex to manipulate and control a specific circumstance.

Wow queen you was Talking DIRECTLY TO ME .. thank you for the therapy 🎉🎉🎉🎉

NEVER TAKE ADVICE FROM A WOMEN!!! DONT ASK THE FISH ASK THE FISHERMAN!

What if is because of the partner giving it to someone else

Rule 1: Leave
Rule 2: Don't look Back

I’m screwed that up

Thank you for this

I have to say this was all pretty terrible advice. I get that this is from a women’s perspective but there are some clear biases in this video. “Giving sex” makes it seem like a chore on the women’s part. If she doesn’t want sex with you, it’s because you don’t do it for her. Plain and simple. But what’s really troubling is that your advice is simply just accept it, bottle it up by not talking about it with her or another person, and don’t ever end the relationship over the lack of intimacy because it makes YOU the woman feel uncomfortable.

Im 24 years old dating a 33 year old. We been hanging out for the past 4 months an she kisses me an give me oral sex but won’t have sex with me. She used to use her son being home as an excuse but is not. Then she told me still has to get comfortable an does have confidence within herself. I like her a lot an hope she feels the same way but I have mixed feelings about the situation. Should I continue being friends with her or just leave?

I guarantee if a woman was getting denied by her man she would tell her friends about it!! NO DOUBT ABOUT IT!! Double standard

This is a ridiculous perception on the topic and it’s guiding men to tolerate lack of interest and affection, no mistakes in wanting intimacy from from your spouse. If she’s not sexually engaging with you you don’t have to stay or wait until she feels like 🤷🏾‍♂️

If she is not having sex with you, she doesn’t get any say on sexual exclusivity

You normally speakin heavy, but this isn't the most agreeable. It sounds like don't punish or pull away when she is.

Jessica, I would rather be immature. Whatever she thinks is her business.

When you understand that women were bought and sold as property of men throughout 90% of human history, the world makes much more sense.

But if your spouse don't want it. It's important to respect their wishes choices? What happened to respecting someone's choice wishes rights ? Choices rights are important to.. especially if you're worried about having a baby in you.

What if she's giving another man?

This was two years ago. I'm sure you've changed some of these ideas by now.
Really, sex is a big thing for any man. So if he doesn't get it despite doing all he does to please his love interest, what do you expect him to do?? He's not an angel. He'll express his frustration one way or another.

This sounds biased

I disagree super beta advice other vids are good

If she’s not giving you sex and you’re in a relationship it’s because she found someone else attractive and is cheating on you , let her go even if it hurts you and find somebody who doesn’t treat you like an option. Because she will keep cheating on you and only use you for emotional support. She withholds sex in the relationship to get horny to sleep with the next man. Trust me I’m 24 and had over 10 relationships no matter how loyal or faithful you are , women get bored with peace and get bored of you and look for new options.

Then Guys walk away

I have to say that this advice feels pretty one-sided. Women equally need to understand how pivotal sex is to a man, and it's for them to recognise that their partner is unhappy and find ways to address the problem. And holding hands just does not cut it in the intimacy stakes for almost all men....

The 'remain generous to her' tip made me laugh. I take it to mean 'be disingenuous' and pretend that you as a man are not hurt by her withholding sex.

The woman who likes your company and wants you to spend money on her. At the same time she refused to give her cookies to you than to another man. it's really upsetting.

Break the rule no 1 find the someone else.😊😊

What about your wife?

After 25 years, the excuses have played out.

No sense your are telling those because you're women

This video is training simps

When you’re married for 25 years and your wife is refusing to have sex often and you don’t expect e to think of cheating you’re nuts

Mistake 2 - it depends on how long have you been in a relationship. If she abstains from the start, wanting to get to know you better, that's completely ok and I agree, but threatening divorce in a sex-less marriage unless she either changes her behaviour or agrees to see a therapist together is a way to go. If a man does not stand up to his own defense in face of neglect, why should a woman respect him? Self-respect should make you state your conditions clearly. Either you are my wife and we will sleep together on a regular basis or you are a parasite, a leech that just takes and leaves my needs unfulfilled - which one is it? Do you want to work on it or not?

@jessicaOS , well Jessica. I am Living in Germany and just listened to a couple of your Videos. As i am 43 years young. I can Tell, that many things of you are true but at his topic, you missed some points. 1. If I am in a relationship for 3 Month and after the first date I got everything and decided to stay with this woman for 2 more month and the suddenly we do not have Sex anymore. How would I react? I would approach her and try to talk to her. 1 week, 2 weeks or 3 but after that it is over and out. Not because of hormones but because of missing trust and respect. If you respect and trust your man, you can speak about everything if not? I not going to Play the clown.

I have a quite good friend, she seemed to be quit logically most Times but suddenly she wants to meet other guys. But not in a fair way but a safe way. She is mother of 2 kids and want to date men even though she has not Broken with her Partner yet. This she will do after she knows that she got a new one.

So as I discovered how women think. I would not waste my time. Missing respect will be punished

So if we stopped going to work or going on walks and talking with our wives, would it not be okay for them to shut down and stop doing the things for you that you want?? Sounds like a big double standard to me.

If she is denying you or always saying no just leave her alone. Something went wrong or she is doing something with someone else. Trust me if that’s your girl and she says no more than yes please leave