Listen to YOURSELF: you likely already know the answer

Ending is pure gold. Therapy is useful at least on individual level as I found myself. However there is a general thinking that everything can be worked out in couple's therapy. Yes, but there is a baseline level of mutual compatability that has to exist without the whole therapeutic process.

Hullo you are smart, handsome and funny, wish you were in Aust.

So why are you still single?

“Fuck that”. Definitely. This is the way.

Yes.Your internal voice is often your best friend.
Thanks Doc.

great material as always - however it was really sad and a bit disgusting even to hear you reduce all women's joy of being engaged/married to money alone, not something I expected to hear here... even if that was true is this really so great to walk away of a failed and often maybe bitter relationship after many years even if gaining some cash? Well.. we could add quite a bit to that but I'll stop here :)

I have a question for all the man.. Has anyone ever been happily married?

Dear Doc, you are doing God's work. Thank you for helping us guys out there.

I am divorcing and are willing to lose my hard earned income selling a depreciating asset- my wife

that's a hard pill to swallow

man i have very different problems. women always leave me because they feel inferior next to me, not good enough. and i loved these women. so what about the other side, when women leave because they think they dont deserve a man like that? how to deal with that as a man and what is the womens psychology behind that?

Where I disagree with you is there is an "I" that detaches. I think if you use a self-hypnosis relaxation CD like one of Steven Gurgevich's - you observe - but - at least for a time losing consciousness of your "self" - you just become observing. I think if you keep practicing that it will help you become the observer they laud in Taoism.

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9 minutes of gold is always better than hours of BS.

¡Gracias!

Seriously? If it's not a F yes it's a no... wow, you have some screwy discernment my friend. I'm listening to myself 100% and this is total BS. Do not listen to this guy. Period. There are so many factors involved. To cookie cutter say after a.few weeks of sort of thinking about it going with whatever you thought was right all along is extremely biased and unreliable and certainly not a good way to make big life decisions. Like literally this is idiotic. Truly. Men, if you want profound wisdom on true masculinity, purpose and relationships and much more, become a Catholic! After 2000 years corruption still exists of course on the human level, but the Chuch Herself offers amazing fulfillment on all levels. Psyhacks may just not be all it's hacked up to be. Save your time, brain and life

This video was a bit vague. Seeking "objective" support from someone with more knowledge and experience is of course helpful. It isn't possible many times for men to just listen to themselves in a vacuum and get the best answer they can rely on moving forward. Further, marriage (sacramental or civil) vs. other types of relationships are completely different. And, you seemed to imply things like a woman on psychiatric meds or who has gained weight or gets angry are below the bar. I would say a man unwillingly to work through real life human struggles is below the bar when it comes to love. But then again I'm Catholic basing my perspective of 2000 years of wisdom versus a guy on the internet. This guy is okay sometimes and appreciate the content, but other times you miss the mark my friend. Boundaries are good sure, but not saying every little problem calls for men to just got straight for the jugular without seeking wise counsel. That is simply foolish.

Once again Orion is 100% spot on. We have all fooled ourselves ignoring the important clues.

Holy shit. I went on to date a girl who caused issues within in the first month (courtship phase) I don't know how I didn't see the red flags . I was only 22, but in my mind I thought if we were fighting already that means we have a connection and are comfortable together lol. Oi vey, I was a stupid dude... The girl was horrible and it lasted 2 years. The last 4 minutes really made me realize this, I don't know what I was thinking.

The thing about Western patriarchy is that it assumes the best of women and labels them kind and gentle people. So men find it very difficult to see women for who they are. Those early red flags do not register the same way because men assume the best in women. And that leads to their downfall.

As a woman this resonated with me as well!

Thanks!

Always friendzone modern westernized women. There's far better overseas. There's a war on masculinity and men in the west

Good content 4real ✌🏾

THIS!!!!!

Killer advice,i fell for this type of crap as a young guy

Another spot on video!

I would like to hire ypu for 30 minutes to an hr to talk to you about my situation where can i contact you besides you tube

Oh my God! Where were you before my first marriage? And the second marriage...

What about moving to the point where you have kids together and have to grapple with this?

Thank you Dr Orion for such practical and to the point advice!

Jesus this guy is complete fire.

You just gave better advice than anything I’ve ever heard in over 20 years of premarital and postmarital counseling from clergy and licensed therapists. “If it isn’t a ‘Fuck yes,’ then it’s a ‘no!’” I really could have used this 20 years ago.

All very cool and sarcastic-u only forget that some men( shocker!) actually have feelings and do want to work things out with the person they love,rather than anyone else. Same the other way around. But, of course,no one expects you to comprehend that.

Thanks!

Perfect advice

I totally agree! A women here is listening

Made me laugh out loud when/how you said, "F*ck that....F*CK T H A T!" Ha, ha, ha

Amen! 😅🙌🙌

"To a woman, getting married in today's day and age is like hitting the jackpot"

Yep.

Especially when there is 'No fault' divorce in the UK.

Men: protect your assets!

i get a kick outta you swearing . love it

umm can you expand on the mutual understanding bit....

Thank you

I've been dealing with my EX for 4 decades , men listen up ..

Is this method useful for other things other than relationships? I would be interested to try.

Thanks Man!

Man, this sits heavy. Women, if he isn’t sure. Why are you still waiting? Why is he still making you wait? You won’t want to convince him, or beg him, to show up. And I don’t agree with the “never ever going to have that” yikes.