The Mindset That's Making You Socially Anxious

The only way to confront risk is to dare yourself to do the doing or action once you hit action mode you will see it wasn't really that hard to conversate and that changes perspective and triggers momentum and trust me when I say this , is in momentum were we all want to be in life no matter the thing or task is the momentum mode that propells you forward farewell 👍 also one more thing is momentum mode that kills any type of procrastinating,at first you will need power of will which creates habit another word for habit is a ritual or something you do over and over until that habit becomes automatic 💯

thank you

Self improvement is masturbation, watching all the videos wasted my time and made me insecure, this is why everyone went from wanting to be an alpha to being a "sigma", its all about stroking your own ego. A friend of mine complains about western women and says the greatest feeling would be rejecting one.

it definetly helps a lot

This was the video I was looking for now I know what my problem was I had social anxiety to honest I hate women like that who think their better then anyone else like I was trying to start up a conversation with this one girl and she rejected me for no reason I was trying to practice my social skills I appreciate you explaining it to me

But see this is the concept that I think you as well as other people who think the way you do get it so misunderstood. I do try to put myself out there when it’s appropriate but the conversation doesn’t go anywhere & I constantly get the vibe that the other person is so uncomfortable talking to me so wtf is the point of talking? The older I get the more I realize that I don’t have anything in common with anybody. Who knows maybe there is an aura that comes off to a lot of people that I’m just very uninteresting & that I have the personality of a box of rocks so that further fuels their reclusiveness. I don’t get people like you at all. You say be yourself but I’ve been doing that for the past 23 fucking years (that’s how old I am currently) & it’s barely gotten me anything. On the other hand, I’m sure if you put on an act like all the pick mes in society then everyone will accept you. That’s just how things work right? This logic just contradicts itself over & over again. This was an alright video but just some advice, if you do something like this again then try doing a podcast with some other people who come from a different background or people who maybe aren’t as over the edge as you are so that it could be an interesting & fulfilling conversation. I hope this helps. 🕺🏾

Your were on ecstasy in this video

Yes, lying to yourself is a great way to live. Thanks

I think if someone is insecure and thinks they are ugly holds them back from talking to someone better looking than them, I seem to have no trouble talking to ugly people

Right, just give into my psychopathy, got it.

Oh poor me, I’m directing a music video and have social anxiety. You live a fantasy dream bro

Of course a model influencer claiming to know something about being creepy and having social anxiety and no friends pfffff what’s the take? Go to the gym?

All i knew - really cool guys have really nice razors. By the way, i have the same Philips OneBlade and it's pretty good.

One thing I hate is being confident/secure/funny it’s nearly impossible to get girls online lmao. Everyone thinks ur weird!! But in person people love you!

I think one of the reason of social anxiety because I think people is higher than me, it sucks

bro u crazy. im crazy too. hahahaha. keep up the crazy flows. we gonna discover sumthing big. see ya

Damn.... people with social anxiety are special, everyone is talking about them these days

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Finally!!! Definitely helps

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Well that was a good video ,thank you mr

bro thx
in like late elementary school i was accused of looking at a girls butt (i was looking at like the ground or sum shit) and that kinda ruined my confidence and made me anxious about like stuff

I just don't want tk speak with people or stay with people and i actually hate being with someone or talk with someone and even worseake friends which i hate the most. I'd try to be pest just to stay alone.

This was a mindset gem💎. Thanks for the honesty.

I use to be able to talk to people but I isolated myself from people for so long I lost the ability to talk to anyone

Tbh, if you don't care about people or mind your own business and only step in when needed. You are automatically weird.... happened to me in high school and it still happens now.
Given that if someone approached me and starts a conversation, they get surprised and praise my mind! 😂
People are fkng weird!

I'll just repeat the conversation in my head to myself for the rest of my life

great content but you still have some growing to do brother.

it’s just my smile

I always end a conversation thinking wow that could have gone better

Because everyone is an arsehole to me. Stop giving shit advice. I am anxious because others are flawed and potentially dangerous. Teach people to be better, and not for anxious people to be more "charismatic". Anxious people can be charismatic around the right people.

You look like the self improvement version of muselk

I do really well in my imaginary conversations.

not being able to access social spaces because of establishment norms requiring you to be part of a GROUP first

Well done, Sir. You just got me to redownload Tinder.

Okay but how is not caring what anybody else has to say about you or not caring what you say to others a good trait? It sounds WAY toxic and selfish and is the main reason I'm very skeptical about getting into this mindset.
Why would I want to blend in like that if it's gonna change me fundamentally as a person.

I also observed that when you start to think about the conversation or think about how your talking, you start to choke, my motto that I live by is “don’t think, just do” some skater guy at the skate park once told me when I was nervous about sending a jump, he was like “don’t think about it too hard, just send it!!”

I’ve also observed that when I’m actually excited to be there with that person, or something really good just happens in my day, it will really push me to be more talkative and put myself out there. Like for example I pass a really hard test, I get accepted at a job, or I get a new car, it can be anything like that, it really makes me joyful and happy, and motivated to talk.

Diagnosed cptsd, social anxiety, depression and on the adhd waiting list. I understand awkwardness etc, but from a different perspective. I hope people out there suffering this are getting the help they deserve. To go through life with no or little support can be crippling and a very lonely place.

You actually opened my eyes a little bit. Maybe i can build on this video with an experience myself.

This year i started developing myself and one big thing was actually to get good with the ladies. The reason for that was a special someone i wanted at my side. Since she was what i wanted, it felt extremely easy to talk to other women. Down to a point where i had more experience in 3 months then in my whole life together. Funnily enough talking to her still felt like i was searching for the right words and the more i tried, the worse it got.

His creepy I'm telling myself and ya normal 😂😂😂😂 o

This explains a lot for me! I've always had difficulty socializing with peers or anyone older than me, but was fine with those younger than me. I've found it's easier for me to socialize with awkward people or anyone I'm in charge of at work. I've been able to notice small patterns with this, but was never able to pinpoint exactly what it was; but this perfectly explains it. When I feel I have power in the conversation, it's much easier for me to speak and direct the flow of conversation. Whereas anytime I feel "below" the other person, I freeze up and have nothing to say. Now that I know this, I'll look out for it and try to apply these tips.

Cole, today is 26.12.2023 1230pm i absolutely random run into your channel i am 29 years old man i do not know english well i struggle finding friends and meetings. I watched a few of your videous they are very helpful i wish i can be better and to know how to start conversation with strangers small talks is where i fawk up very bad but well maybe someday i will have the courage to permit to myself to not be perfect instead to be real and things to flow natural cause i constant overthink what to say and ppl start feeling the energy inside of me feel that i hide something in the same time my overthinking is fawking me up and all fall apart ....

Great video for anyone who’s trying to output themselves, 2024 is coming, let’s become our own trend 🏆

So true dude , so true, its all in your mind., but pretending is tiring and you can't do it forever.

My social skills are fine, i just dont like to interact with people because i find most people are lost and actually a little insane. Id rather my own company and nature as nature doesnt lie to itself