How To Know Yourself

Not only I know well me I know well himself but I don't want know him

so the sense of our identity lies from our childhood upbringing?

I didn’t understand much of a single thibg

I just wanted to say, thank you for using culturally diverse models. It made me feel included and will make others like me feel the same. Great work!

Is there any book recommendations to understand and to know yourself better?

Any book recommendations that dive deeper into this subject? Something to help provide a better understanding on the matter

Thank you

有一个非常严厉的家庭，极度压抑自我的发展。我本身较为早熟，也不喜欢优绩教学，加之极度敏感的内心世界，与完全传统的家庭不断碰撞着。较小的时候学会了去演戏，演一种更加听话而又十分开朗优秀的孩子，逐渐长大发现了这种折磨，不能表达的情感、多余对世界的多愁善感、时刻保持冷静不流露感情的理智心情，逐渐都被家庭的围墙笼罩，最后变成了一张很会表现爱和努力的脸，直到自己再也演不好这个角色为止。在很久之前我一直懊恼和后悔，后悔的事情在于我没有演好这个角色，逐渐长大我发现不是如此，我应该感谢我没有能力去完全演绎这个角色，而且内心的真实想法一直因为阅读而疯长，外面的世界和家里的世界是那么的不同，我一次又一次对比着，外界的答案很容易理解，家里却每次都是截然相反的态度，对于这些也衍生出了一个更加戏剧化的我。在家里演好孩子，学校又是不同的自己，我不知道哪一个是我，只有写作课的时候我好像才全部被释放，尽情表现那个自己都不认识的自己。但是这还不够，远远不够，后来我试着做了很多离谱的事情去打破原来的自己，我无意做的那么极端，但是过程好像十分恐怖，这个过程实话说真的很难，我甚至也萌生过为什么我执着于做自己这种小事，反正演戏也能过好这一生不是么？但是我的答案已经有了，我再也不可能回去。探寻自我很多时候是积极的，但是过程是无比痛苦的，而且像我这样的类型，家庭和社会甚至都会与你为敌，这个时候要珍惜留在你身边的人，他们是你最珍贵的人。即使这些过程在别人看来只是自讨苦吃，但是当你真的成为自己，你才能爱上这个世界。那是一种真挚的爱，超越许多感受。我长大后也羡慕很多有包容家庭氛围的父母，也委屈过为什么我不能一开始就在一个积极的家庭里按自己原本的样子发展，如果我只是找一个原来的自己那有的人生下来就已经把我想要的一切都具有了。不，不是如此，见过太多人之后我开始知道，就算是开明的父母也未必就有一个完善的自己，每人都有自己的修行，重要的在于追随你心的声音。可能有的人一开始顺遂，但是他们习惯了那样的安逸，未必知道珍惜，甚至听不到心的声音，悲伤的经历让我们更加重视眼前的生活。保持着好心态，希望我们都可以成为自己。

If you have to learn who you are. Then that's proof there's no spaghetti monster in the sky.
If we are designed then we already know everything we would ever need to know.

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Why they not blanc.
Heh.

That this stuff is just out there for free amazes me. Made a ton of sense. Bless you.

How does this help understand perspective?

fuck

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This is a monumental content. A book with akin subjects was a turning point in my life. "A Life Unplugged: Reclaiming Reality in a Digital Age" by Theodore Blaze

The first step to knowing yourself is NOT LETTING ANYONE TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE.

THE THINGS YOU LIKE, ARE DRAWN TO, NATURALLY UNDERSTAND AND HAVE EXPERIENCED ARE THE CLUES WE GET TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT OURSELVES!!!

yourself .......!!!!!!

Interesting

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This vidou is very helpful thanks alot❤

He explains perfectly what todays people has completely misunderstood. We blame everything for what is and don't realise if we just accept ourselves we remove the anger and angst we feel to better co exist

This is an eye opening video showing us not to be hard on ourselves and to give ourselves a break. Not to look around for an approval but trust our own selves. we all have our own pace of work and we need to stop comparing ourselves to people around us. It also gives an insight of how behavior of people around has effects us. How small things parents might have done or people around us might have said can leave a deep remark on us.

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Useless content with a clickbait title but to actually know yourself, visit their store! Crap?

meh

Knowing the connection between who you are and why things in life have occured is necessary.

I don't think the title "How to know yourself" is appropriated. Maybe "The importance of knowing how we are", but it doesn't tell the audience how to know...

A win is a win

Love this.

TSOL is a therapy session for those of us who lean on the side of self-awareness and awakening.

I'm fifteen and I don't know myself, I don't know what I like (it could be tv shows, hobbies or whatever), I don't know which people I wanna associate with, I don't know which people I wanna be friends with so as a consequence I end up always searching for them because I am always unsatisfied with the people I unconsciously surround myself with. The fact that I am ok with doing absolutely nothing all day, just scrolling through tiktok EVERYDAY, not improving myself or exercising or doing anything, it really scares and worries me, but even though I AM scared that I will always be like this, I don't mind this flavourfuless life, and that's the part that scares me the most. It's true that most days I just go to sleep and don't think about it much, but when I do, I feel so desperate. I wanna be able to feel passionate about things, but even though I tried I can't bring myself to truly like anything. I lost all the passion that I had for things that I though would revolve around my life for a long time if not forever, for example drawing: I absolutely loved drawing, since I was a kid, and now I haven't been doing that for three whole years. I haven't touched a pencil since forever, and I feel like a very important part of me is missing. That's just an example of a passion that I lost, but there are many more, like playing computer games, going to swim in the swimming pool, mangas, anime etc. I feel like I lost myself, and I can't find me anymore. I always end up searching videos like these, hoping I will find little pieces of myself one by one, but the advices are always the same, and the more I follow them the more I feel lost. I just hope my mom is right, that it's just "a teenagers thing", and that I will be able to find things I'm passionate about as soon as possible.

The narrator sounds like the one from "The Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy".

Am I the only one who started crying as the video played on?

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I find that knowing at least your own limitations is helpful. You'll know when it's too much for you, and thus, you can avoid too much stress. You'll know not to expect too much from yourself so you won't feel such a failure when you fail. Unrealistic expectations of yourself can be really toxic.

We are human

I thank you with all my heart for this video ❤

I’ve just stumbled into the root of all my problems in life.

I want to become a little less hungry for praise, a little less worried by opposition and a lot more original in our thinking

bruh i was following along (which hasnt always been ez in the last 4 me w these school of life videos, even tho i luv em so much) AND THEN BRO SAYS “Denegration and Adjulation” like HUH??? although i luv expanding my vocabulary so keep using big words so i can learn n get a bigger brain n be able 2 follow along until the next big word(s) lol

What is the “SELF?” GISH JEN and others try to help understand what the self is. Spinoza, a 17century philosopher wrote his Ethics which has contributed to society in psychology, philosophy, science, and rational thinking. If Spinoza’s Ethic was read and understood, they would understand and know the nature of the mind and of human emotions. Spinoza’s idea of a self is a thinking being. The self reflects the mind, the mind is comprised of clear or confused ideas. The ego state is a lower sense of self, the intelligent thinking mind is a higher sense of self. Neuroscientist believes that the brain is the mind, this is not true. The brain is an organ that helps regulate all the systems of the body and it’s a storehouse of memory. The mind is a nontangible thing, it can only be understood intuitively. Science relates to the physical world; it measures and compares things to other things.

welp here I am at midnight while smoking 🍃

I am in possession of some of the ultimate truths about me

this is very helpful and amazing thanks

I just got to know about this book and came here to check before buying it, thank you for your sharing 🙏

No one won't understand ownself more than others.we of course understand ourselves

I'm tired of pretending for fake ass people who don't know who they are. I don't wear that jacket!