What do Thai girls think about older men in Pattaya and why?

love your videos. hesitate to respond, but being a little younger (39) it might be usefull.

like in the west a while back, married life starts early. family pressures them a bit and children are hard to take care of. family will help so you can go off to work and just send some money home. in thai culture children must honor and take care of the people who gave them life, unlike in the west where you are supposed to take care of your children. (the ungratefull bastards ;)

being new and know nothing of western men and not speaking english the first boyfriend(s) are thai. I found myself once in a bar with these thai men and learned of a concept, to wich i forget the name they gave it.
each of them has 3 girlfriends. they explained that 1 might be busy with a customer, you might loste one and you need time to replace them. 4 apparently is too much because three might show up. the thing that was craziest to me, is that when one of these girls called, they went to pick them up and the girls would give them a little money. the idea being that it is easier to make money for a girl and a GOOD girl considers her boyfriend.

Now back to the girls. hitting 30, speaking a little english and familiar with western man the girls start to consider relationships with western man. especially traditional speaking, man take care of woman. any children would be taken care of too and have an above average life. furthermore, western man are easy to please. if you find yourself with a thai steady girlfriend, she wil what we consider spoil you. rub your head or feet for no reason. getting you something nice to eat.

i've met a bunch of girls 35 to 45 i would love to have as a gf, but they consider me too young. i might see another girl i like, i am way to active and after years of partying they want to slow down. and even the best efforts are useless, because these girls are way too smart for any of us. the romantice thing or seduction, at that point, no chance.

for anyone, in my view, go 35+. can do 30, but, they might still be hussling. there is always a change for that but options are running out and most of these girl wil start to think of themselves and resent a little, those that live of them.
Just listen to there lifestory. you want a girl that is ready. if they focus more on family than themselves, if they want to go dance twice a week, if they are eager to spend all day with you, (other girls) hold off.
a serious girl will give you room and want you to be happy. so they will want to know what you like. anyone that doesn't inquire what you like, see it for what is is, a trade.

anyway, hope it helps. for me, all the girls i think highly off are my age or older and ive been in pattaya 50 weeks or so. at last, i remember my grandfather say once that you should take a woman from her mother or take a woman that "worked" for a few years. I finally start to understand what he meant.

cheers

Men want sex woman want their money …… it a trade . He right those girl not stupid, older guy is thinking age don’t matter . Lose you retirement check see how long you live there .,, number boy

Just arrived back from Thailand on 11 Jan 24
I’ve been 9 times to Thailand and thought I was made of stone as I leave my heart in the Uk when I leave for Thailand!! But I met one girl who made me realise I had actually brought my heart with me!! She made me feel like no other Thai girl could ever do!! But I ain’t stupid the second the sob stories start coming it will be BLOCK!!
but I just goes to show how some guys can fall in love even when they think there invisible!!

I went in the BUZZIN LOUNGE was hoping to meet you but you weren’t there….. all the best
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I haven’t got a word of thai and I'm as white as a milk bottle! I'm gonna need a stick to keep these girls off me! 😂😂

Question, does the age rule generally apply across Thailand or predominately just Pattaya?( ie girls preference is older men)
I first came to Pattaya by accident while traveling 24 years ago. (Was 18) it didn't help my life at all, chased the buzz for years back home. Now 24 years later at 42 Ive decided to come back for the first time since, bit nervous if im honest. Spent 6 months there back it 2000 and came back thinking i was Brad Pitt 😂

I like your blogs. I’m coming end of march

thank you very much for your truly insightful videos

So coming from Australia I’m probably gonna be browner than the locals 😂

Hi. Been to Thailand many times and never had a bad experience with Bar Girls.
It'd down to being Street Wise..

ATM

Its all about Money to them

I would love to find a nice girl

The more a newbie you are the more you are easy pickins to the girls and dress totally matters. Most of the girls it's their dream to marry a foreigners but most can not do it. Then the girls change and don't care or trust them they just look at it as a business..

Never bring the girls back to western world except to visit with you. Living in western culture will just push them into woke feminism. It happened to me with a Thai girl then a Pinoy. They start hanging around their GFs and having girl talk and girls night out and told that in USA you can do what ever you want and can cheat and don't have to settle for anything including your man. Most foreigners cant really afford Thai women unless they can live in Thailand and have a income. Working abroad never works out either.

If a young Thai girl marries a Thai man of the same age, there are a number of potential problems. One is they will likely need to work, and that usually means leaving their children to be brought up by the grandparents.. The girls are looking for kindness and care, what you look like doesn't seem to matter at all; it's how you treat them. An older farrang is the top prize for many girls.
I dragged my long suffering Thai wife around the world for many years with my work so I can talk about taking them abroad. But we had a home in Thailand and she knew she would eventually live there with me - which we do now. Hope this helps.

I like how this is a no bulshit explanation with truth to it. I would also argue that Thai girl's (but this count's for all etnicities really) are more into foreigner's in general just because they like somehting exotic and they wan't to try out something different. An American or a European or whatever is equaly exciting to Thai people and vice versa. If your young or old the probability of getting laid abroad is a lot higher.

Guys take these women to their homeland and it doesn’t work out. It doesn’t work out because these women start talking to western feminist women. If you them back to the United States, Canada, England or Australia, she is going to meet a feminist.

Older men=less energy more money smaller less active cock.Who wouldn’t want to clean windows of only bungalows.

Speaking Thai and watching a few of your videos, can help you avoid a heap of trouble. Whichever country I've visited, speaking their language actually helps a lot by making the natives feel relaxed that you are trying to interact with them as a courtesy. As for the Thai girls, the bar girls would probably be wary because they cannot exploit you. If there is any indication that you know the 'rules', then they are probably less interested because they are not going to be able to 'play' you.

So, I guess this makes me an older guy butterfly.

The money, simple.

Very wary of young dudes who blow smoke bang like shed door and are so handsome everything is free...

What branch of the British military were you in mate? USMC 1987-1994 checking in. My Great Grandfather was 3rd Battalion,9th (Service), Royal Regiment of Scotland.

The comments you don't like are bang on. You just don't want to accept it. girls prefer older guys as financially stable. Frequent visitor and know plenty of guys with Thai wives or ex wives/ "girlfriends ".

Married to an Asiatic former Soviet Union wife who is 86 percent of my age ..

Get real..

The videos are entertaining , thank you.

I agree with most of that. You truly are spot on with most things. What the girls told me is they would rather sleep with a younger guys than older guys. Just have to put it like this. Would you rather short/long time with a 50/60 year old over weight women or have a one in their 20s/30s who look the business. Its the same but roles reversed for them.
I agree on the side of looking for a husband which they are constantly looking for that lottery ticket. They understand that older guys usually have more money and they already live in thailand too.
I agree on its how your dressed. Also talking about looks i had so many girls tell me the first thing they look on a guy is their nose bigger the bridge the better lol.
I agree the girls work really bloody hard with long hours and hardly any holiday time. I feel sorry for the girls especially the ones who work in bars and have to drink 300+ drinks every month or lose their job. Some with rules have to get a certain amount or short/long times each month or they lose their job. I could name so many who do that. I like to boycott those bars/clubs. Even to the extent when i buy a lady a drink i tell her she can order a alcoholic drink on my check bin but drink water or something instead up to her. So many places are killing the girls for profit.
When i next come Thailand i will visit your place and hope to see you. Truly brilliant videos i'm trying to go through them all.

These videos are fantastic..Its great to see how things are done out there and its fascinating 👍🏻

Are girls in this country going to learn they can make an onlyfans and make more money than being a prostitute?

They like money buddy. All around the world. And we like p*ssy. I see this as a win/win.

It’s all money regardless’if they like u they’ll fuck for free simple

Pattaya is a bad representation of Thailand and Thai girls , the attitude is disgraceful

Age is just a number “ when your old these old boys are a joke should go home eat cornflakes and watch pop idol not running round pattaya acting like Peter Pan let’s see the, go to bangers and operate up there , ❌ no way there not gonna nick anything decent without paying that’s why there all in the dive that is pattaya

When going to Thailand you only need to know 3 words. Kapunka-thank you, Sawadeka- Goodday , Boom Boom - S…X. , Pom Poi - Fat 😂

I'm an Asian gay man who has always been drawn to white partners 10-20 years older than me. Many people assume it's solely about money, even during vacations in Thai service staff often focus on my spouse, considering me as 'sugar boy” either with daddy. Despite these assumptions, we've been together for 15 years. When we met, he was unemployed and lived in his mother's house.
In our relationship, I handle finances, family business, and important decisions like immigration, while my spouse takes care of cooking, laundry, and household chores, which he enjoys.
I'm attracted to big, older men because I find maturity attractive, and they tend to be appreciative. Im being skinny and smooth, but my spouse is twice as heavy, bearded, and super hairy, and I feel comfortable and cozy with him, especially on long winter nights 😊. So, do not underestimate yourself; different poles tend to attract.

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Looks like nobody commenting here gas ever met a Thai woman other than in a bar. There is an entire country outside Soi six. You should visit it!

Love this video but I have to disagree a little, I cant speak amazing Thai but I can string some sentences together and to be honest because of it I found in the past things are cheaper, u get more respect, the women know your not a Kwai or a pushover, it's always worked out great. Top that with wearing a PapeKinet amulet (they love that) and a GOOD dress sense for the evening, clean, smell nice, not the same stinky t-shirts and shorts worn throughout the day, jeans and a nice shirt will do fine, they notice these things, girls have joked with me in the past about SUKO BOK MENN FARANG 555 hahaha. Maybe things have changed now, last time I was there was 2013 lol

I'm pasty white but lived in Asia for 12 years!

Love your turns of phrase.

Hello! For girls is sex only the way to get money. As a man you are always only the ATM!

Really great and interesting video.
First video I've ever seen of yours.
New subscriber here. Really love content. Will watch more. 👍🤘

Why ? They pay more, they fuck less !

Can't believe this guy still gets any views

A strappin young guy will stretch them out !

It's a business. As long as they have money, age is just a number. The younger guys are trekking in the jungles, surfing on the beach or hanging out with a group of boisterous friends at the bar. The older guys are way more likely to be drinking alone. 😂

The problem is, by and large, the cliché is accurate. It tends be men with fewer prospects, divorced, 50+ who go over there to satisfy their less than sophisticated requirements. The old white guy and younger Thai woman is largely a transactional relationship. The old guy gets a girl of the age he couldn't get in UK/his own country... and the Thai girl gets an opportunity to profit. The sob stories of blokes getting shafted by local girls, is a pretty obvious result and is representative of naive blokes making schoolboy errors

It's called money people ...I lived BKK 2 yrs during last military coup. It is what it is....

He said old men come here 😂

Because older men are lonely and will spend money. Big Pimpin.

Thai girls in Pattaya don't like old men. They like their money. Do you like old women?

Because its not so stressfull in the bedroom like with young guys who want to break sex records!

Because it dosent matter why!