The Little Shaman DEEP DIVE: Dealing With Narcissists - How to... [COMPILATION]

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Great video

I'm confused as to why then, some Narcissists have admitted to me in what felt like extremely vulnerable moments, that they do indeed dislike themselves and feel unworthy. If it is like facing death for them to admit that, then why at times is it possible for them to admit it?

I finally looked up the definition of SHAMAN
It means “ a healer
Yes you are! You have healed me! ! ❤️

thank god this has many views, it is very important

I am curious, you mention a little voice in their head multiple times accross all your videos but this is the first im hearing of their negative self talk. If im not mistaken grandiose thinking and behavior is hallmarks of Narcissism.

They believe that feelings are facts! Absolutely 100% and then you end up trying to explain that it isn’t 😢

So accurate "one day they do something with you and the next day they see the same activity as evil or offensive". Without a reason, uhh. You can even make a conversation about a TV show and they will turn it around as that you wanted to impose something on them (?).
And they talk to you like they speak to someone else not you.
Sad that they never realize they do this to themselves and noone wants to hurt them actually. People have their own problems as well.

The fact that she hits every cylinder that describes my husband. After being married almost 4 years to a man I thought was my knight and well u know the rest. Now I'm dodging emotional landmines.. 😥

Wow! I wish I would have found you and your information about 10 years ago. Thank you for all the work you do. Much appreciated.

Thank you

I watched so many videos and this one is by far is the best video out there

I'm a man with a narcissist baby mother. We aren't together but she tries to control all the decision we have to make for our child. Not sure what to do. Anybody with suggestions?

Anyone else here not allowed to have a past? For example the narc gets upset if you happen to mention a city/country in conversation that your ex is from.

I have enough narcissistic tendencies that I've overcome than to believe a narcissist can't heal. I was a narcissist. Cluster B individuals are not incapable of love. By believing that they aren't capable of love or healing we are reinforcing their illness, and we are reinforcing such illness in the world.

I have an " friend" who would always say mean nasty things to me but always with a big smile on her face, and I finally called her out and she told me I was being too sensitive and she was only joking 🤔 now I know why

Thank you for sharing! So helpful! God bless you 🙏.

Then why would anyone want to stay in a relationship with a narc!?
I didn’t !
I would think everyone would want to get the hell out!
You will always try to make the relationship better!
So just leave him!
There is no reason why you should stay!!”

For God’s sake ! ! Get away from them!!!
Any relationship with them is a total waste of time !!

They NEVER LEARN!!!
Get away from them ASAP!

Outstanding wisdom
Thank youn

I would say “I’m not your enemy !”

But they NEVER RESPOND!!!
They Never say a word
They NEVER answer your question !!!!!”

THE BEST YOU CAN DO IS GET AWAY FROM THEM !!!!

And then divorce them. !!!!!!

Pray for the narcissist and surrender them then over to Yahweh!!! He's the ONLY one who had change and Save them... Prayer Works!

Narc r impossible to deal with, v need extra strength ,energy, intelligence and powrr

happened just yesterday, I enquired about how the interview went? got "you are faking interest in this u don't really want to know"......because i looked at the phone for 3 sec. exhausted from explaining ridiculous things for the last 15 years. how are they so successful in careers ?

Wow you have the amazing ability to be absolutely spot on in such a concise way, thsnk you so much for these xx

Can vulnerable narcissists be at the same time be victims of narcissists?

As one who was married to a narcissist for decades, my observation is they have a brain disorder; perhaps a form of asperger's/autism. To me the most telling symptom is their lack of cognitive skills. That alone makes them live in a world of their own.

Now I know how Jesus felt being nailed to the cross being around my husband's family.

Theyre the most disagreeable on earth. why try? learn to let it go

Your videos are next level. Early on, (1yr ago) I’d skip your videos but now I am finding the conclusions I need and can’t find elsewhere.

Thank you Ms.

Shine on

I have found a way to instantly shut down my mother. You can blame me. You always do when you want to cover something up. About that...(ask open ended question about the subject they are trying to deflect from. Like why aren't you talking to so and so?

They are the most miserable people alive. YES!
My covert Narc ex complained EVERY SINGLE DAY. Throughout the day. It was torture!!!! Like water torture....a constant dripping onto my head, ears and heart. It almost destroyed me. I felt like I was going crazy!!!!

Crazy how people protect the narcissist! I did it....ugh 😢
I was always cleaning up his messes, talking to the bank when he spent too much and our account would constantly be going into the negative. I was protecting people from his rage and trying to KEEP him from raging. 🤦🏻‍♀️ It was a fruitless venture and I ended up leaving.

It is very sad you are right And what else inside it’s the people that they draw in to their world who believe in them and not you and there’s nothing you can do to help others understand

This all came to me fast,I totally get it now

You have incredible insight. I am often made to take responsibility for the CN feeling worthless (a large part is blamed on me for calling out abusive behaviors). I understand now I am not responsible for CN’s feelings. However - how do I respond when this is turned on me? For example I receive a lot of passive/angry aggressive facial expressions and voice tone. Say I call it out and then am told he’s not responsible for my feelings and gaslit that what I’m sensing is incorrect. How do I respond when CN uses “I’m not responsible for your feelings” back on me?

My narcissist went to prison…..ever since he makes out like he’s a crime lord…..lol…as soon as he meets someone he tells them…”I just done 5 years” the truth is, he done 3 months lol…..he lies about being a drug cook, he’s been kidnapped by the under world heaps of times…..etc….he’s a lost little boy , a joke, and a horrible person….

Carl Jung thought alot about the cross symbol as representing the fourfold human functions: thinking, intuition, sensation, and feeling. So the healthy person with a well-ordered psyche runs on all four of these functions. He then wrote that "feeling" is an inferior or undeveloped aspect of non-Christians. Feeling, sympathy,empathy, compassion: these are all concepts that require heart, concern for the well being of others. This makes sense when narcissists seem to "suffer" from maladsption. In some sense they believe they are the victims,.....of what? One thing l've come to believe in my own feeling heart is that narcissistic maladsption is guilt-based. There's something in their past that has caused this secondary dysfunction. Confession is therefore the prescribed method to obtain cure.

He made a trip to Florida back in March. I wrote down the directions because he always got lost. I took them to him and I left before he did. On my way home I stopped for gas, now putting him in front of me. He actually pulled over and waited for me. Now he's behind me again. When we got to the point we had to go our separate ways he was waving and smiling. When he came back from Florida he accused me of following him because I thought he took someone with him. He was behind me, how did I follow him? Then he accused me of stealing from him while he was gone. I'm done with this crackpot. Now I know why everyone calls him Craze.

I'm an empath and surprisingly I never defended myself with the covert narcissist. I would ask him questions about his accusations that left him speechless because he then realized he wasn't making any sense. And I never raised my voice and got emotional. He didn't know how to handle that. He tried for 4 years to break this empath, it didnt work. I enjoyed watching him squirm. I refused to marry him or move in with him so I still had control of my own life.

I was married in the time before cellphones.He'd get terrifyingly angry about food.When i asked whats the problem?He'd say he doesn't know.
Now i wonder if he paces and threatens the phone.😂

Wow. Little Shaman. You're up there with Paula. Narcon.

Gold

I've had pathological women in my life both friends and family. Two of them (I believed used witchcraft on me) have stalked me from a young age. In retrospect the God/Universe was warning me not to respond to them. I wish I'd listened....their obsession never ends I'm 53

RIGHT ON YOU CAN NOT KEEP TAKING CARE OF THEM