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OMG really love your video and story telling! immediately subscribing
ОтветитьThis is a great video. Straight to the point and simple to understand. However, I want to remind everyone that several serial killers were charismatic as well. I'd rather be shy than a toxic narcissistic. But that being said, I could benefit from this video ... I just hope I can apply what I learned when the situations come up
Ответитьlove this video
ОтветитьI enjoy listeing to your share so much. What a pleasant voice! Keep up your good work:)
Ответитьman I have a horrible habit of trying one up someone during a conversation! Real no reason for me to do it but I do it anyway!!
ОтветитьIsn't this people pleasing?!
ОтветитьSo glad I came up with this video today and watched it. It feels like it talk to me what I go through on a daily basis when I deal with people or when I surrounded by people and I am forced to talk my issue that I always run out of words what to speak And I admire to see people who are speaking so eloquently when they are surrounded by new group of people.
ОтветитьGreat info!❤
ОтветитьMe trying to use the same name-learning tactic: "Is that Sarah with an 'i' or a 'y'?" 😐
ОтветитьThere are Robins with a 'Y' 🤯... brutal!
ОтветитьHello do you have any book recommendations? novels and other genres :)
ОтветитьStubbled on your topic and what a blessing it is! I've been trying to shed my "old self" from my prior job (of almost 6 years) where I felt/acted not confident and not self-assured. Granted the work environment was laced with the shame and blame mentality, it was a difficult place to grow. Thank you! Also, I haven't looked yet, but my 29 year old daughter is a people pleaser extreme always wants "people to like me". She's smart and pretty but chooses to pick "friends" that use her. Any suggestions? Thanks again.
ОтветитьI make videos helping people to level up their social skills. Loved this!
ОтветитьBeing interested does not work. You just end up being a place for people to dumb their talking needs.
ОтветитьI came to see this video while I'm searching Abt how to me emotionally strong ...& It's really worth
ОтветитьAnywhere, if the topic is about "talking" or "communication" the book How to Win Friends & Influence People always get discussed 😗😗
ОтветитьVery informative and Educative 😊
ОтветитьGreat video! Although I would have picked a better example than Elon Musk for competence lol.
ОтветитьI like it a lot! Thank you very much for sharing these tips 😘
ОтветитьPlease make vedio on taking height increase supplements after age 18 for girl. Please
ОтветитьLol using Jimmy Fallon as being authentic isn’t the best choice
ОтветитьI can tell when people are using my name to make an impression on me and it irritates me rather than pleasing me
ОтветитьThank you! Not ending discussion with short answer was an useful tip 🤩
ОтветитьMy feature face is so cold, even if I smile or laugh it's seem like I fake it,
ОтветитьI loved listening to you and hearing what you have to say. I am trying to expand my social network in this town where I moved to 6 yrs ago. Then Covid happened and the lockdown. I think the other thing that you should mention is that you attract the vibes you send out. We are radio towers in the sense that if you decide what your intent is for the day, you will likely reach it and get that kind of feedback. I remember one day, years ago when my husband was gone for the day golfing with his buddies.
I decided I was going to also have a great day! And I sure did: went to the farmers market, had a wonderful lunch at my fave Thai restaurant, was treated to a musicians playing out on the patio, visited an art gallery and met the owner who turned out to become a friend
Bottom line: smile and the world smiles with you.
I don't agree with the name mentions. I cringe when I hear my name which I've hated and been teased about since i was little.. I know plenty of people who hate their names and don't want it pronounced out loud. Especially foreign sounding immigrant names.
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ОтветитьTrump is charismatic. So there’s definitely more to it than warmth and competence.
ОтветитьYou ve nice teeths
ОтветитьVery nice🫂💋👄👄💋😘😘❤️🫶❣️
ОтветитьVictim blaming is as much bs to make them feel better for their own abuse toward others. They are taught this by others who abuse. To keep people in a low self esteem. Makes it easier for them to get away with being abusive.
ОтветитьAll your filler images are the same washed out hazy or silver skies. The blue skies have been given way to the "Franken skies".
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Ответитьthank you for sharing
ОтветитьThis is pure manipulation and it might mess up with our own brain
ОтветитьIt will lead us to not how we fell but become people pleasure ig.
ОтветитьFor the people who comment that they're always the one listening and then get ignored. You're lacking the competence they speak about in the video. Hence when you talk they don't listen, people want to listen to competent people, competent people are interesting. So what you're lacking is confidence, be a bit selfish and show confidence. But because you are competent you are aware when is time to show interest on the other person, then you're the warm person they speak about in the video. It's supposed to be an INTERACTION. Enjoy as much talking about yourself as listening/getting to know someone else.
ОтветитьFrom the top of my heart and the bottom of my soul: Thank you.
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ОтветитьSupporting everything you said and just want to add, as someone who never tried to and therefore wondered about „so much“ attention from others.. longest time I wasn’t sure if the impressions are even real. Realizing that any output you create without thinking about how the message will be received, will be received as more trustworthy, bc as soon as you think about it, it alters the output even if only ever so slightly. To have better results when testing don’t give up too quick and try be relaxed and unbiased. Peace :)
ОтветитьI’m good at video games
ОтветитьPlay devil advocate here, I absolutely hate it when people use my name to much, because it often feel like an orchestrated sales trick to keep my attention
ОтветитьIt’s more about looks… always has been. I’ve met too many dumb, confident and fake people to realise the sad truth
ОтветитьThis is so helpful and clearly explained. I love your cooking videos and I love these helpful tips even more. I tend to be viewed as nice over competent despite my experience and qualifications in my career so this is really impactful and truly resonated. Some great tips I will be applying right away. Thank you so much ❤
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